Originally Posted by mr dave

Maybe you need to stop projecting your fantasies about how so and so would behave and instead learn about their individual personality. It's like Bob mentioned, that was classic Lydia Lunch. What were you expecting? Cuddling with Nardwuar on the couch, maybe reading a little poetry while softly talking about her hopes and dreams?

Fact is, a lot of musicians / artists / creative people are not nice or fun to be around, hell most of them are a-holes. Especially old school punks.