Sansa Stark

The woman I love said something wise about 'navigating rocky emotional waters together.' She always has ways of putting things just the way they are.

So it sounds like for you that there is a core issue that exists even though everything else seems virtually perfect.

Gosh, that sounds familiar!

I hope you guys are able to unite and alter that issue so that it doesn't continue to cause you anxiety.

We have some minor issues that sit in the middle of our perfect relationship and it hurts sometimes because you wonder why the issue is there at all.

We struggle with issues of not being heard and control and manipulation and then it turns into having a poor view of ourselves reflected back from the person. We both want to be good people in the eyes of the ones we love. We both want to be heard.

Oh yes, Hermione, I know what you are going through. Because sadly I am pressuring someone and in turn feeling pressured to. And we are in the middle of talking each other through the process, trying to relieve the pressure.





It's hard to balance feeling manipulated and controlled versus feeling loved and cherished. And in turn it's hard to stop yourself from manipulating and controlling in return.

I feel for you, and I hope your situation resolves itself. It IS hard to trust, because I can't promise you dear girl that you wouldn't get your heart broken if you do. Because it IS a high possibility.

If there is anything I can do, let me know. Without knowing your full situation the best advice I can give is not to make any knee jerk reactions either way. Don't fully give in immediately, but also don't completely give up immediately. Which sounds like you are handling it with patience and love anyway.

If ANYONE is doing anything to make you anxious, then yes you should tell him/her to stop.

And if it's ME, then gosh I apologize!

And oh....did you mean there was headphucking going on between us? Because I really don't want to do anything to make you feel anxious!

And if not, then do you want to discuss what is causing you to feel anxious?

I actually take benadryl whenever I feel anxious. It isn't strong enough to actually make me sleep, but it calms me down enough to feel even keeled.

If you don't want to be 'sleepy' you should then do something that gets the heart rate up and perhaps helps you expel that excess energy, and let your body help soothe the headphucking you feel.

I'm sorry for how you feel, because I know the sensation all too well.

Sorry for the delay!

Uh oh, what's going on now?

Oh oh no...of course you have a cold dead heart. You are as evil and vile as ever! Don't you ever let anyone tell you any different.

There....feel better?

I was just sharing how we @$$holes are isolated sometimes for expressing ourselves. I didn't want to feel alone or you to feel alone. But see I was assuming you feel anything with the cold dead heart of a @$$hole beating in your chest :)

Who said I was interested? <---see that, that's what you get for Monty Pythoning me

oops...I think the language filter got me...that supposed to say @$$holes wherever it's blocked out.

@$$holes unite!!!