Sansa Stark

Is that s c a r y ? =P I feel like you know ME very well!..

Eat the b@tch - I mean rich ;o)

Yeah, that's... not good. Heh. The relationship between the client and the therapist is the most important factor in the success of the interactions, whatever therapies they might use.

I can't tell you how loudly I "aww"d just then.

Have a great weekend. Apparently there is a misunderstanding. I didn't intend to offend you, so my apologies.

Oh well you know what I mean...I don't think any of us are 'perfect', but when you love someone, like you said you are available to them for support.

I hope he shows that he understands you Hermione, or at least TRIES to understand you.

And yes, it's hard for me too to just say "I need you."

And also if you're trying to reflect the good emotions you have about him...those concepts of him being perfect and having such goodness in him, and he doesn't reflect that back to you, and refuses to accept what you say...then that is hurtful.

You start to feel like the bad guy, like you're not good enough. And especially for some reason if he's not personally saying to you 'I believe in YOUR goodness and I see how perfect YOU are to me.'

I hope things turn around in those areas Hermione, I really do.

I feel bad for the ways I've reacted now in my relationship. Because I think I've done that to the person I love, and it breaks my heart. Because she IS perfect. She is the most wonderful person I've ever met, by far, there's just no comparison. I should say that more often :(

I guess it's like you said....when you look through all his bulldookie...do you see that he does love you and knows that you love him.

And you feel yes. So then even in his lashing out he must be counting on you very heavily.

And so you're feeling overwhelmed with that emotional responsibility and it doesn't help that he doesn't always accept what you say, and starts asking why why why and starts lashing back out at you.

I'm sorry Hermione! :(

These are indeed some rocky emotional waters to navigate with this person. It's a rough ride!

I am happy to have by my side someone who is wise and kind and understands. I want us to unite and soothe our hurt issues so they dont' threaten the rest of the relationship...and I want the same for you dear Hermione.