The Relationship Thread

OccultHawk · 11-20-2020, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Norg

im just telling about my exp of dating a girl straight off divorce with 1 kid

we dated for a few months i treated her like a Queen and her kid but she left me after a few months outta the blue ..???? BTW mind you her X husband cheated on her

she goes on dates another guy and he cheats

then she gets drugged and knocked up by another guy and has another kid but does not even know who that baby daddy is

and mind u here iam thinking Dang WTF i do :P i was the best thing going for her

I think its obvs for the best tho i got out and damm im lucky i guess ahahahah

5/5 classic **** right there son

**Marie Monday** · 11-20-2020, 12:31 PM

Shut the **** up. For real.

Plankton · 11-20-2020, 12:32 PM

I've been a single Dad for 23 years. My daughters mother was a beautiful person inside and out until prescription drugs took ahold of her when our daughter was 3, so I separated my daughter and me from that equation and haven't looked back.

Before all that, I was put in jail for things I didn't do (like hitting herself over her head with a brick and telling the police I did it as a small example), beaten on, had my little girl ripped from my arms while her mother was creaming "You'll never see your daughter again... blah blah.." as my daughter was screaming for me, mocked, ridiculed, and quite a few other things I might be repressing or don't feel like sharing here. She went absolutely mental and still is. She OD'ed a few months back, which she's done too many times to count through the years, and when my daughter did visit her mother, I'd sometimes have to pick her up from some random police station because her mother was shoplifting for drug money. Insanity.

The one constant through all of it though was me telling my daughter that her "mother loves her very much, and she just needs to work things out right now". I needed to be strong to guide my little girl through that darkness. This has proven to be one of the truest statements and one of the best gestures towards any sort of healthy relationship between all of three of us. When her mother does get moments of clarity, she's very apologetic and her love for her daughter finally shines through. It's heart breaking actually.

I don't talk about it here, but I raised one helluva kid on my own through compassion, understanding and a lot of love.

**Marie Monday** · 11-20-2020, 12:34 PM

Damn man, you're making me tear up (in a good way). I had no idea you're a dad, it sounds like you handled things wonderfully. Respect.

Plankton · 11-20-2020, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Marie Monday

Damn man, you're making me tear up (in a good way). I had no idea you're a dad, it sounds like you handled things wonderfully. Respect.

*hugs*

Thank you Marie.

I get a bit teary talking about it. I also have another reason to get a little misty... my daughters SO asked me for her hand in marriage! He's a fantastic kid with a heart of gold. We both cried, hugged, and now look at each other with a little more respect. Plus, we have a mutual secret. lol

**Marie Monday** · 11-20-2020, 12:50 PM

Oh that's fantastic, congratulations!

Plankton · 11-20-2020, 01:01 PM

WWWP · 11-20-2020, 01:26 PM

Aww now you're a DILILF

**Marie Monday** · 11-20-2020, 01:33 PM

The Batlord · 11-20-2020, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Plankton

Plus, we have a mutual secret. lol

Does it involve a shovel?

11-20-2020, 12:32 PM	#33 (permalink)
Plankton Just Keep Swimming... Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: See signature... Posts: 7,765	I've been a single Dad for 23 years. My daughters mother was a beautiful person inside and out until prescription drugs took ahold of her when our daughter was 3, so I separated my daughter and me from that equation and haven't looked back. Before all that, I was put in jail for things I didn't do (like hitting herself over her head with a brick and telling the police I did it as a small example), beaten on, had my little girl ripped from my arms while her mother was creaming "You'll never see your daughter again... blah blah.." as my daughter was screaming for me, mocked, ridiculed, and quite a few other things I might be repressing or don't feel like sharing here. She went absolutely mental and still is. She OD'ed a few months back, which she's done too many times to count through the years, and when my daughter did visit her mother, I'd sometimes have to pick her up from some random police station because her mother was shoplifting for drug money. Insanity. The one constant through all of it though was me telling my daughter that her "mother loves her very much, and she just needs to work things out right now". I needed to be strong to guide my little girl through that darkness. This has proven to be one of the truest statements and one of the best gestures towards any sort of healthy relationship between all of three of us. When her mother does get moments of clarity, she's very apologetic and her love for her daughter finally shines through. It's heart breaking actually. I don't talk about it here, but I raised one helluva kid on my own through compassion, understanding and a lot of love. __________________ See location...

11-20-2020, 01:01 PM	#37 (permalink)
Plankton Just Keep Swimming... Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: See signature... Posts: 7,765	__________________ See location...