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Old 01-29-2021, 10:19 AM   #961 (permalink)
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Old 01-29-2021, 11:50 AM   #962 (permalink)
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I think you’re in the best possible position, mindy.
You don’t come across as a hookup kinda guy to me, I imagine you prefer the trust, stability, and intimacy of a relationship, or at least ****ing someone you have an emotional connection to - therefore where you are right now is perfect. There’s no point pursuing anything but a hookup until you A) are comfortable with yourself and happy being alone, not seeking another person to make you feel good, B) until you know what you even want!, and C) with the right person it should be easy, it shouldn’t feel like work or “chasing,” or playing games.

Not being interested in anyone right now doesn’t have to mean anything other than you’re busy doing your own self work. Don’t let some beezy **** it up for you
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Old 01-29-2021, 12:36 PM   #963 (permalink)
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I think you’re in the best possible position, mindy.
You don’t come across as a hookup kinda guy to me, I imagine you prefer the trust, stability, and intimacy of a relationship, or at least ****ing someone you have an emotional connection to - therefore where you are right now is perfect. There’s no point pursuing anything but a hookup until you A) are comfortable with yourself and happy being alone, not seeking another person to make you feel good, B) until you know what you even want!, and C) with the right person it should be easy, it shouldn’t feel like work or “chasing,” or playing games.

Not being interested in anyone right now doesn’t have to mean anything other than you’re busy doing your own self work. Don’t let some beezy **** it up for you
Thanks for the kind words WWWP

I agree also, I am not looking for hookups but rather a stable trustworthy relationship is something I would really want.

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Beezy is not a word.
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Old 01-29-2021, 01:44 PM   #965 (permalink)
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Old 01-29-2021, 01:46 PM   #966 (permalink)
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^ clearly not from the yay area
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^that's the male herd mentality for ya, mindy
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I have a random question. Non-queers may also participate.

Have you ever been with/dated someone who had committed some crazy ass crime or something similarly bizarre?

Like I dated a guy for a bit years ago who had gotten into a car accident in which the other person died. Dude was supposed to turn himself in for vehicular manslaughter but he dipped to Denmark for 6 years or however long the statute of limitations was. I broke up with him shortly after. Lol.
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