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~~jwb~~ · 01-27-2021, 03:15 AM

I think acting on your sexual drive in some form or another is the default

Say you felt homosexual urges but never acted on them? What would your diagnosis be? Probably they are repressing their gay tendencies due to social stigma, no?

So yeah. If you don't "chase" women at all it's a good possibility you just aren't that into women, or else you have some sorta hang up that is stunting your sexual development.

**Marie Monday** · 01-27-2021, 03:32 AM

That last thing you said about hang ups is important. I basically agree, but I think we're not meaning the same thing by chasing: I think Mindfullness was talking about the assertive way many men adopt, but for some people (if they're shy, withdrawn, or whatever) chasing is hardly the right word for their sexual initiatives

~~jwb~~ · 01-27-2021, 03:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Mindfulness

Yes, shouldn't I have any want or urge to go find some women to have sex with? Don't most men want to have sex? I don't even try, I have Facebook dating app but don't even try that much. I don't have ANY urge to try dating apps. I feel like a relationship will start once some women randomly finds me, I don't go find them.

I guess I am wondering if men who don't even try to chase women, are subconsciously gay like you mentioned.

By assertive you mean putting forth any effort whatsoever???

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~~jwb~~ · 01-27-2021, 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by elphenor

nah some guys aren't comfortable in that role and are better suited towards being chased themselves

better suited... He said it's been since 2009

Sorry but women just ain't as prone to do the chasing in most cases

**Frownland** · 01-27-2021, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by jwb

women just ain't as prone to do the chasing in most cases

I could see why you would think that yukyukyukyukyuk

~~jwb~~ · 01-27-2021, 10:58 AM

Yeah yeah predictable response but you know I'm right.

Even if you have it going on and women will approach you often then you probably aren't the kind of guy who has problems approaching women in the first place. Its a catch 22.

**Frownland** · 01-27-2021, 11:04 AM

Whatever you gotta tell yourself bro

YorkeDaddy · 01-27-2021, 11:12 AM

Have we ever seen any evidence of a single IRL female being remotely interested in Frownland?

Genuinely curious. I wouldn't be shocked if he's a virgin

YorkeDaddy · 01-27-2021, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by elphenor

frownland ****s I gurantee it

Cutting a hole in a spaghetti squash and going to town does not count

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~~jwb~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jul 2019 Posts: 4,403	I think acting on your sexual drive in some form or another is the default Say you felt homosexual urges but never acted on them? What would your diagnosis be? Probably they are repressing their gay tendencies due to social stigma, no? So yeah. If you don't "chase" women at all it's a good possibility you just aren't that into women, or else you have some sorta hang up that is stunting your sexual development.

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~~jwb~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jul 2019 Posts: 4,403	Yeah yeah predictable response but you know I'm right. Even if you have it going on and women will approach you often then you probably aren't the kind of guy who has problems approaching women in the first place. Its a catch 22.