SGR

It kinda gives me Steve Vai vibes.

Guybrush

Yes, you're right. I usually think of sexuality as a spectrum or perhaps a plot of many dimensions. We all place a little differently on that spectrum with some aligning towards the ends and some closer to the middle.

I don't quite think of myself as bi, but maybe others would. Generally speaking, if I find someone attractive in a striking or interesting way and I want to look at them, that person is very nearly always a woman. I don't consciously think of men in terms of romance or how they're sexually attractive or not.

However, if I were to have sex with a man (something I would like to explore more if I could), at that point I would realize that whether or not I find them attractive IS important to how much I want that to happen or not. So attractiveness in men IS something that I register, even if it happens mostly unaware.

All in all, thinking of men sexually takes conscious effort, but when I do that, I find it appealing. I guess it's a bit like thinking about an exciting sex toy you might wanna try. If me and some guy were the only two people left in the world stranded on a desert island, it's not impossible that I could be satisfied in either a sexual relationship or a romantic and sexual relationship with that other person, provided I found them attractive.

For me to think "wow, that guy's cute" is something that has happened so rarely in my life. Maybe a couple or a few times? Perhaps more, but I tend to forget. It could be from a lack of excercise. I do think I probably like younger guys and not macho men, so I have a vague preference

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Sounds somewhat relatable

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adidasss

Ok yeah, it doesn't really sound like you're bi, maybe bi-curious at most. Your attitude towards sex with men sounds a little like mine towards women, but my conclusion is that while I could probably have sex with women, it would almost certainly be bad sex. If you're not ogling something with desire, best not to go down that route, otherwise you'd just be putting your dick in a hole. I figure. Sex should be mostly about enjoying each others' bodies and desire isn't really something anyone should consciously work on.

Bottom line, if you're not fantasizing about dick, it's not for you.

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The Batlord

What if you've been drinking tequila?

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Guybrush

I don't mind poking my dick in a hole. I think people should free themselves of unfounded prejudice and seek out pleasure in various ways. As long as your actions are lawful, you're up front with your intentions and honest about who you are and cause more pleasure than pain, you should generally be in the clear as far as I'm concerned

As for sex between men, it seems natural to me. Although men and women are generally like venn diagrams in that there's a lot of overlap, there is a general trend in sexuality where men and women are a little out of sync. For one thing, men tend to want more (extremely common guy-complaint in hetero relationships). Guys tend to find it easier to detach sex from emotion and are generally very capable of enjoying butt stuff, being equipped with prostate glands that seem to love that for some reason. So in some ways, guys seem better suited as sexual partners for other men than for women. Not true in every case, of course.

The idea that sex is for reproduction is of course antiquated. Rather, in many social animals (mammals in particular), sex seems to be also or even more often for social bonding / glueing, also between same-sex individuals.

Hence, I think that a population of humans healthily expressing their nature would feature a lot more of men on men sexuality. I just feel like I'm probably a person with a fairly average / standard desires who's open minded, perhaps a little gluttonous. But bi-curious is probably a good description (have some experience, would like more).


I'm a teetotal Also I never particularly enjoyed drunken sex. If I was drinking with a hot chick (or chack), I would rather pick her brains than her bean.

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jwb

i like gay sex i just don't have any desire to get involved in a real relationship or do couple type ****. I don't feel that way towards guys and i don't feel that way towards the majority of women. Sexual attraction is a casual thing that doesn't mean romantic interest.

I'm not at all bicurious or confused though trust me i know what i like.

Guybrush

Me and jwb.. blowing dicks and breaking hearts <3

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The Batlord

Luckily he likes both.

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