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Old 09-08-2021, 12:26 PM   #1071 (permalink)
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This might possibly offend some and if so I'm sorry, but for myself, I am not hung up on sexuality at all. To fit myself into some fake, binary idea of who I am in regards to sexuality seems dishonest and like shoehorned into a social construct.

My honest expression of sexuality would be that I enjoy sex with women or men and very much both at the same time. I never fell in love with a guy and I generally prefer women, but I do enjoy some of the possibilities from sex with guys. Had I felt free to explore that more in my life, I might have (am monogamous and happily married).

Some people I wanna bang and most not. What's with all the shoehorning (not talking about shoe fetishism)?

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I could add that while I can't be sure, this is roughly what I believe most "straight" guys would feel like if unfettered by strict adherence to some idea of heterosexuality which I believe has little basis in biology.
I get that, sexuality is complex and doesn't fit in a simple box. I put myself in the 'lesbian' box partly because it's simple and I happen to fit the box well, but mostly because the world is still so heteronormative that I feel like marking my gay territory, so to speak. For instance, even if you tell obnoxious drunk guys you're gay they still don't leave you alone. And it's also owning an identity that people have given you **** for. So for me identifying as gay is a way of asserting my sexuality until the world is ready to think about the subject like you do
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Old 09-08-2021, 01:02 PM   #1072 (permalink)
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What is it with straight/cis dudes identifying every sex toy as a bilbo
what is it with lesbians sending you random pictures of them holding a ***** only as a segway to giving you their dissertation on the correct nomenclature of their sex toys like it matters. You broads are a trip.
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Old 09-08-2021, 02:24 PM   #1073 (permalink)
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what is it with lesbians sending you random pictures of them holding a ***** only as a segway to giving you their dissertation on the correct nomenclature of their sex toys like it matters. You broads are a trip.
It was obviously a Frodo, you caveman.
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Old 09-08-2021, 02:25 PM   #1074 (permalink)
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Old 09-08-2021, 02:38 PM   #1075 (permalink)
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Men are so gross though
A lot of them, yeah.
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If you put your hand on my dick do you expect me not to ***?
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Old 09-08-2021, 02:55 PM   #1077 (permalink)
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one of my roommates was having a 2 guy 1 girl 3some for 3 nights in a row and I reckon at that point you admit you just want to **** your mate eh?
Probably. Why not? I generally think a threesome like that is a lot more fun/interesting if you can have sex with both of them. You can get banged and have your dick sucked at the same time.

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I get that, sexuality is complex and doesn't fit in a simple box. I put myself in the 'lesbian' box partly because it's simple and I happen to fit the box well, but mostly because the world is still so heteronormative that I feel like marking my gay territory, so to speak. For instance, even if you tell obnoxious drunk guys you're gay they still don't leave you alone. And it's also owning an identity that people have given you **** for. So for me identifying as gay is a way of asserting my sexuality until the world is ready to think about the subject like you do
I get that

I also think that these "boxes" are handy for things like constructing an easier narrative in order to f.ex. promote tolerance.

My personal pet peeve is toxic masculinity. I wish it was more talked about as I think it really corrupts the way men think about and relate to both themselves and to others.
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Old 09-08-2021, 07:32 PM   #1078 (permalink)
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This might possibly offend some and if so I'm sorry, but for myself, I am not hung up on sexuality at all. To fit myself into some fake, binary idea of who I am in regards to sexuality seems dishonest and like shoehorned into a social construct.

My honest expression of sexuality would be that I enjoy sex with women or men and very much both at the same time. I never fell in love with a guy and I generally prefer women, but I do enjoy some of the possibilities from sex with guys. Had I felt free to explore that more in my life, I might have (am monogamous and happily married).

Some people I wanna bang and most not. What's with all the shoehorning (not talking about shoe fetishism)?

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I could add that while I can't be sure, this is roughly what I believe most "straight" guys would feel like if unfettered by strict adherence to some idea of heterosexuality which I believe has little basis in biology.

In many if not most social mammal species, guys bang guys and still make babies with the ladies.
I don't see anything offensive in your post, but also I think you realize it doesn't apply to everyone (I guess you'd be on the bi or pan scale). Labels help in a way simply to identify preferences. I identify as gay because I don't have any sexual interest in women (or rather it's so miniscule it's irrelevant). There are plenty of people like this and always will be, even if/when we all get over our collective hangups about sex.
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This might possibly offend some and if so I'm sorry, but for myself, I am not hung up on sexuality at all. To fit myself into some fake, binary idea of who I am in regards to sexuality seems dishonest and like shoehorned into a social construct.

My honest expression of sexuality would be that I enjoy sex with women or men and very much both at the same time. I never fell in love with a guy and I generally prefer women, but I do enjoy some of the possibilities from sex with guys. Had I felt free to explore that more in my life, I might have (am monogamous and happily married).

Some people I wanna bang and most not. What's with all the shoehorning (not talking about shoe fetishism)?

Edit:

I could add that while I can't be sure, this is roughly what I believe most "straight" guys would feel like if unfettered by strict adherence to some idea of heterosexuality which I believe has little basis in biology.

In many if not most social mammal species, guys bang guys and still make babies with the ladies.
I'm bi but i prefer women and have no romantic feelings towards men

I would say i am only romantically attracted to cis women but I'm sure there are "non binary" types etc that would also fall in... Caveman or not basically the dividing line for me is if you were born with pussy.
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