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Old 09-15-2017, 02:50 AM   #1 (permalink)
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no, feeling really stressed out that i might lose a friend over this. I meet her next on saturday and im being told I need to confront her or leave her. It's a ****ing hard decision man and I don't know know what she's gunna say.
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Old 09-15-2017, 03:01 AM   #2 (permalink)
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no, feeling really stressed out that i might lose a friend over this. I meet her next on saturday and im being told I need to confront her or leave her. It's a ****ing hard decision man and I don't know know what she's gunna say.
This is definitely not a wind up then?

Staying 'friends' isn't going to work from what you're saying and nor is entering a relationship (in my opinion), so I would nip it in the bud now and move on.

I mean you can do what you want, but I'd stop now if it were me.
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Old 09-15-2017, 04:20 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Hey Vi, talk to your friend and tell her how you feel. You'd be surprised how easy it is to solve situations like this with a serious conversation. Before you cut a good friend oit of your life, be upfront with her and try to work things out.
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Old 09-15-2017, 06:01 AM   #4 (permalink)
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no, feeling really stressed out that i might lose a friend over this. I meet her next on saturday and im being told I need to confront her or leave her. It's a ****ing hard decision man and I don't know know what she's gunna say.
Ride it til the wheels fall off then deal with the aftermath later. I would be wary of getting into a relationship with her if I was you. If it is so easy for her to cheat on her current relationship. What makes you think she would do that to you down the road?
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Old 09-15-2017, 06:09 AM   #5 (permalink)
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so are threesomes an option or are we past that
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Old 09-15-2017, 07:47 PM   #6 (permalink)
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no, feeling really stressed out that i might lose a friend over this. I meet her next on saturday and im being told I need to confront her or leave her. It's a ****ing hard decision man and I don't know know what she's gunna say.
So you two were involved before her current relationship? How did you feel about her meeting someone else?
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Old 09-16-2017, 12:42 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I hate when people say that.. just because you cheat on someone doesn't mean you're a perpetual cheater. She's known him for what 17 years, and her new BF for 8 months. You guys make an awful lot of assumptions about character for having one side of the story and not a clue as to who any of the parties involved actually are as people.

Sometimes you make connections with people that have significant impact and meaning in your life and you find your emotions really torn. Less bias and shaming more advice giving with the understanding you know **** all about the reality of the situation..
Good point. There are a lot of reasons people cheat and they are not all inherently malicious or even a deal breaker imo.

I'm interested to know the answer to stephen's question. v

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Yes, let us not foul the pristine image of the group of people known as "cheaters."
Cause really we're just here to see if TM is ****ing his cousin.
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Old 09-15-2017, 06:11 AM   #9 (permalink)
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If the bf finds out he has been cheated on this whole timr. I doubt threesome is even an option on the table.
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Old 09-15-2017, 06:12 AM   #10 (permalink)
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