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02-08-2017, 01:31 PM | #21 (permalink) |
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hmm methinks that consent, while obviously very important, is not relevant to whether or not something is a fetish.
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02-08-2017, 01:33 PM | #22 (permalink) | |
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In my experience people who use fire, blood, and knives are not turned on by those objects. Arsonists can have fire fetishes, not your average kinky person. That is just another facet of sub/dom relationships. I'm not even sure I'd consider pedophilia a fetish, it seems more like a taboo sexual preference. |
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02-08-2017, 01:33 PM | #23 (permalink) |
Dude... What?
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I'm from sf. I saw all this **** when I was a child, idgaf about any of it. But you know. Have consenting fun.
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02-08-2017, 01:55 PM | #24 (permalink) | |
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Let's do this:
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A child cannot (legally or otherwise) give consent to sex. Depending on what we're talking about here, you can have a baby up to a fifteen or seventeen-year old (given different state laws I assume), and whereas a "child" of fourteen or fifteen might be well-informed enough and sexually mature and aware enough to agree to have sex, they are not legally allowed to, therefore there is no consent, as seen in the eyes of the law. Therefore having sex with an underage person is rape, or as you guys put it, statutory rape, and so no fetish by any stretch. For much younger children the question does not even arise, as they have no idea what's going on when a man says he "wants to give them a treat" or "show them something". Urgh. So consent is most definitely important, and I believe separates a fetish from an illegal act. Also, I should add that your contention that I dislike paedophilia and don't consider it a fetish because it's "yucky" (your word) is frankly ridiculous and also wrong. I have I believe outlined my reasons above, and they hinge on the concept and importance of consent. Plenty of things are "yucky" - bukkake, corprophagia, bestiality etc - but that doesn't mean I don't consider them fetishes. Quote:
Edit: okay I re-read it: you're right. She is making a specific case for fetishes as opposed to kinks. My bad.
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02-08-2017, 02:30 PM | #28 (permalink) |
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It's like you didn't even read my explanation.. I just gave you a clear cut distinction of why kinks and fetishes are different. It's not semantics.
Fetish = sexual desire derived from an object Kink = non-vanilla sexual practice or fantasy Do people who enjoy bondage get aroused by ropes? Most likely not. Kinks don't even have to involve sex. People go to play parties all the time and do not participate in sex. You are just making uninformed opinions. |
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