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**Frownland** · 04-25-2019, 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by elphenor

do I give her space

or do I call her tonight and try to really sort out what's upsetting her

literally yesterday we were more than fine, I said the wrong thing last night

Look Blaro, he's actually soliciting advice. Now is your time.

The Batlord · 04-25-2019, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk

Dude

I know you wont trust me but I’m going to tell you anyway

Don’t **** around with sorting **** out or any of that

Whenever you talk to a woman turn the subject toward how beautiful they are

I’m serious af / that’s all women want to hear ever

even if she calls you out for being a shallow piece of **** keep on topic

Her looks she’s beautiful

It never ****ing fails

Others will dispute this but they are wrong

call her and just say you’ve been thinking about how beautiful she is and then mosey off - even if she acts cold it doesn’t matter - women get addicted to it

It hits the crack cocaine pleasure center or something

I'm sure your wife or girlfriend would agree.

**Exo** · 04-25-2019, 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by elphenor

I quite like this woman is all

it's a very ordinary thing really

if the day came when I felt a natural emotion
Id get such a shock, Id probably jump in the ocean

Here's the most real advice I can possibly give you.

You're too obsessed with yourself to ever give that girl whatever it is she needs in this relationship. You're a selfish person even if the decisions you make aren't geared towards yourself. The inner you wants everything to be about you. I've been there. I've made decisions thinking it was about the girl but really it was about how making the decision would make me feel at the end of the day. It's like when a person gives money to a homeless person to make themselves feel better. "Look at what a nice thing I did. Good job, Exo. That was the right decision." Meanwhile, that homeless person just took your money and did whatever it is they do with money from strangers, leaving you on your nice cloud of self importance. It's out of your control because you didn't control the situation in order to drive an outcome for them. You control the situation to drive an outcome for yourself.

Homie, until you find somebody that makes you forget about your natural selfishness for a few moments each day, you're always going to feed the #1 person in the relationship, which is yourself.

Lisnaholic · 04-25-2019, 08:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Blarobbarg

I feel you dude and hey maybe it'll still suck ass and make me feel like ****. But I ain't there yet, and I've honestly enjoyed it so far.

^ Not to disagree with OH, who's put in a lot of hard teaching in difficult situations, but there is teaching and teaching. The money's not great, but I've been doing it for 27 years and still get a buzz out of my students. In good circumstances, teaching is a fun job, and even if it isn't for you, I imagine it can lead to other job opportunities: surely any interviewer understands and respects the skills needed to be a teacher.

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk

Whenever you talk to a woman turn the subject toward how beautiful they are

I’m serious af / that’s all women want to hear ever

^ Are you sure this is good advice, OH? No offense, but you sound more like Holden Caulfield than an adult in 2019.

OccultHawk · 04-25-2019, 08:06 PM

Really Exo? Altruism?

DwnWthVwls · 04-25-2019, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Exo

Here's the most real advice I can possibly give you.

You're too obsessed with yourself to ever give that girl whatever it is she needs in this relationship. You're a selfish person even if the decisions you make aren't geared towards yourself. The inner you wants everything to be about you. I've been there. I've made decisions thinking it was about the girl but really it was about how making the decision would make me feel at the end of the day. It's like when a person gives money to a homeless person to make themselves feel better. "Look at what a nice thing I did. Good job, Exo. That was the right decision." Meanwhile, that homeless person just took your money and did whatever it is they do with money from strangers, leaving you on your nice cloud of self importance. It's out of your control because you didn't control the situation in order to drive an outcome for them. You control the situation to drive an outcome for yourself.

Homie, until you find somebody that makes you forget about your natural selfishness for a few moments each day, you're always going to feed the #1 person in the relationship, which is yourself.

This 100%

OccultHawk · 04-25-2019, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Lisnaholic

^ Not to disagree with OH, who's put in a lot of hard teaching in difficult situations, but there is teaching and teaching. The money's not great, but I've been doing it for 27 years and still get a buzz out of my students. In good circumstances, teaching is a fun job, and even if it isn't for you, I imagine it can lead to other job opportunities: surely any interviewer understands and respects the skills needed to be a teacher.

^ Are you sure this is good advice, OH? No offense, but you sound more like Holden Caulfield than an adult in 2019.

1) Do you live in the USA?
2) Yes. I’m positive.
3) No offense taken. In fact, that’s a compliment afaic

The Batlord · 04-25-2019, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Exo

Here's the most real advice I can possibly give you.

You're too obsessed with yourself to ever give that girl whatever it is she needs in this relationship. You're a selfish person even if the decisions you make aren't geared towards yourself. The inner you wants everything to be about you. I've been there. I've made decisions thinking it was about the girl but really it was about how making the decision would make me feel at the end of the day. It's like when a person gives money to a homeless person to make themselves feel better. "Look at what a nice thing I did. Good job, Exo. That was the right decision." Meanwhile, that homeless person just took your money and did whatever it is they do with money from strangers, leaving you on your nice cloud of self importance. It's out of your control because you didn't control the situation in order to drive an outcome for them. You control the situation to drive an outcome for yourself.

Homie, until you find somebody that makes you forget about your natural selfishness for a few moments each day, you're always going to feed the #1 person in the relationship, which is yourself.

This is one reason I'm not that concerned with getting a girlfriend. A **** buddy would be ace but an actual girlfriend would be putting a pretty name on me getting fulfillment out of the concept of having a girlfriend. I ain't fit to be nobody's partner. Not at the moment at least.

OccultHawk · 04-25-2019, 08:12 PM

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Originally Posted by dwnwthvwls

this 100%

0%

OccultHawk · 04-25-2019, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Dharma & Greg

This is one reason I'm not that concerned with getting a girlfriend. A **** buddy would be ace but an actual girlfriend would be putting a pretty name on me getting fulfillment out of the concept of having a girlfriend. I ain't fit to be nobody's partner. Not at the moment at least.

Jesus ****ing Christ both sides get something

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