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03-23-2006, 11:58 AM | #901 (permalink) | |
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03-23-2006, 12:06 PM | #902 (permalink) | |
Atchin' Akai
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My mate has served two tours in Iraq and he say's that it's not as bad as he expected. In fact he quite enjoyed it. adidasss, good luck with your middle sister tomorrow mate. I remember when my niece told our family she was a lesbian. We all love her the same. I've said it before, but I think you will find that people with negative attitudes towards homosexuality don't tend to know any gay people. Look how your youngest sis has taken up the cause on your behalf, since you told her. |
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03-23-2006, 12:29 PM | #903 (permalink) |
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Ah I never knew adidass was gay, ah your neice should be fine with it, i find that people tend to say things like "I wouldn't like my child to be gay" but then they find it pretty easy to accept when it's friends,relatives etc.
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03-23-2006, 12:46 PM | #904 (permalink) | |
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However, Marijan has a problem due to him living in a much more religious oriented country, namely Catholic. I hope he doesn't mind me saying this, but his mother in particular has to square off her love for her son and the thought of him going to hell, due to her religious beliefs. You can see his problems aren't as clear cut as my nieces, for instance. |
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03-23-2006, 01:32 PM | #905 (permalink) | |
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i no longer have any problems in telling my siblings ( there's 5 of us, so after tommorow, there'll be 2 more to go, but they will be a bit tougher to deal with, seeing as how they're 10 and 12 years older and thus more set in their ways and much more conservative ). the only possible problem i see with telling the older two is that they might get so upset they might decide to kick me out or stop supporting my ass ( we have a family firm and those two are in charge ), but that's highly doubtful ( although i really can never tell with my oldest sister, she can be a vicious bitch at times )... at this point, my main problem isn't telling people, even in my home town ( i told my sister she's free to tell all her friends ), it's that my family will be stigmatized if this ever gets out, i don't care if people start shit with me or start giving me the evil eye on the street mainly because i don't care what people think of me, they're all idiots and i don't plan to live there anyway, but i do care if my sister for example gets in trouble with some of those neandrathals trying to stick up for me ( something she's always done, ever since we were kids, and something she feels is her obligation to date ). this is a very small village we're talking about and me being gay would be the news of the week....i don't think i have to explain how people in such places ( and it's on an island so even a bit more conservative and backward ) view homosexuals ( dirty, promiscues, aids stricken, immoral sinners that will try to fuck you in the ass if you're not careful, no joke, people think that if you're gay you wanna screw any man that walks by, apparently they're under the impression gay people have no standards ). so yeah, that's the only reason i'm a bit worried that it will get out, because my family would instantly become "that faggot's family" and a whole slew of problems would ensue. well, ok, that's a lie, i'm worried about other things, i don't want people to shun me when i go back home or for some asshole to gather up a crew and beat the shit out of me ( all realistic options when it comes to my little town )....em *goes back into denial* sorry, i digress.... i feel bad for your friend, it's "a god damn bitch of an unsatisfactory situation" as you can imagine. i feel a bit worried that i'm suffocating you with all this gay shit these last couple of weeks, but, if it wasn't for that, i would be talking about some other boring aspect of my life, i just thought it would be rather interesting to see how the process goes. if your friend is computer savy and you think he would want to, give him my msn info and i'll be more than happy to talk to him, maybe give out some advice, and get him off your case.....
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03-23-2006, 01:36 PM | #906 (permalink) | |
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Yes that does complicate the issue a bit. But I still believe that they can come to terms with it. There's also a point where a mother accepts that her beliefs are not the most central part of her life, but the love for her son is. Anyway blarg, I'm really rubbish at trying to understand this, all I can say is good luck adidasss! :3
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03-23-2006, 02:24 PM | #907 (permalink) |
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Good luck with that, adidas! Wish ya the best in the world :]
-- My day was rather amusing, although it was an awful day health-wise, the social parts were funny... I was in an awful, ornery mood today ahaa...and I was snapping at everything, and slapping people...But the interesting part was that this one kid actually claimed I bruised his arm by hitting him, and he went and told the principle haaa, and so I was supposed to have detention, BUT....they couldn't get a hold of my mom [therefore they couldnt hold me in detention], and whattaya know, my mom comes and picks me up early HAHHAHHA... AND, she sided with me. Gold. |
03-24-2006, 10:01 AM | #908 (permalink) |
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im trying to find an excuse to leave work early today...damn meetings though, doubt i will be able to which only leaves me an hour and a half to get home, change, then head out to the Tempe skate park for a skate session with JFA and Lance Mountain!!....im guessing i will either get there a little late, or get a speeding ticket.
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03-24-2006, 11:20 AM | #910 (permalink) | |
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