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Old 10-11-2023, 12:11 PM   #77301 (permalink)
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how to tell someone you're a piece of **** with ****ty opinions without saying you're a piece of **** with ****ty opinions --v

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That was a sincere outburst of admiration for her absolute clarity on an issue where so many lacked it

I used to have a much, much lower opinion of her, as reflected in this post from over a year ago



Back then I let myself be influenced by things like my irritation about adult Harry Poter fans, my (likely well-founded, let's be honest) prejudice against her as a writer of fiction and my reflexive support for expressions of gender nonconformity, of which she was reported to be an enemy if not THE enemy.

But the more I've read up and thought on the activist movements purporting today to stand for gender nonconformity, the less apparent it was what was wrong or offensive or hateful about anything she said on the topic. The blog she posted to her site is incredibly thoughtful and fair. Nobody is obliged to agree with every word she says as she is the first to acknowledge, but reading it with an open mind is more than enough to dispel widespread caricatures of her as a conservative bigot.

One of her chief worries is precisely about the freedom of gay and lesbian children to be gender nonconforming.
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Old 10-11-2023, 01:27 PM   #77302 (permalink)
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Are you a fan of HP but not the gender stuff then?
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Old 10-11-2023, 07:27 PM   #77303 (permalink)
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Nobody is obliged to agree with every word she says as she is the first to acknowledge, but reading it with an open mind is more than enough to dispel widespread caricatures of her as a conservative bigot.

One of her chief worries is precisely about the freedom of gay and lesbian children to be gender nonconforming.
So bigot, much ****ty.
No knee-jerks here.
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Old 10-11-2023, 10:08 PM   #77304 (permalink)
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Are you a fan of HP but not the gender stuff then?
Not really a fan tbh. Hogwarts Legacy is the exception given she had no part in the development of said game so itd be unfair to the actual devs to **** on their work. Never really have liked her before so not much has really changed.
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So bigot, much ****ty.
No knee-jerks here.
Me when the Harry Poter lady opens her mouth
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Old 10-12-2023, 04:47 AM   #77306 (permalink)
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So bigot, much ****ty.
No knee-jerks here.
With all due respect, you do not get to tell a person in the group who is being targeted by this rhetoric what is and isn't sh*tty.

Do I think JK Rowling is a malicious hateful person? Probably not, but her support and platforming of anti-trans rhetoric is contributing to causing actual harm to trans people all the same.
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Not really a fan tbh. Hogwarts Legacy is the exception given she had no part in the development of said game so itd be unfair to the actual devs to **** on their work. Never really have liked her before so not much has really changed.
In general, I find that video games are better than books. None of that blah blah blah
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With all due respect, you do not get to tell a person in the group who is being targeted by this rhetoric what is and isn't sh*tty.
Yes she does
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Yes she does
She can say whatever she wants but telling trans people we are “knee jerking” over rhetoric that is helping ruin trans peoples lives is unhelpful and frankly comes off as dismissive of this very real issue.
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Old 10-12-2023, 12:29 PM   #77310 (permalink)
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In general, I find that video games are better than books. None of that blah blah blah


I feel the same way. I get a lot more enjoyment out of video games anyway. Ironically I also love story heavy RPG's so I get the best of both, in a way.
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