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Trollheart · 02-05-2021, 03:38 PM

Key · 02-05-2021, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk

Preciate that sister!

On a semi-serious note, obviously I want MB to be a place where I can be me and write what I want to write but other people feel uncomfortable when I move too far in certain directions. It’s a really hard sell to convince me they should feel uncomfortable but it’s an easy sell that people DO feel uncomfortable whether I like it or not. I’m not like an everywhere should be a safe space for everyone type of liberal but I also think it’s totally reasonable for everyone to feel basically comfortable here. Naturally, I think everybody ought to cheer me on and tell me everything I do is awesome but the mods have to balance giving me full liberty with how certain things make other people feel. I’m just saying I plan on reeling in certain aspects of my personality in deference to other people’s psychological space. Even if I don’t really get WHY people get upset I still want people to come on the forum and enjoy themselves. If they’re really bothered by what I’m saying then they’re not enjoying themselves and I want everyone to have a good time.

Well if you want to change, prove it. Words are words. that's all they are.

OccultHawk · 02-05-2021, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Key

Well if you want to change, prove it. Words are words. that's all they are.

Well I can make a pledge:

1) I will not make any suggestive, provocative, flirtatious, or any kind of joke or any other sort of comment to or about Marie under any context whatsoever without exception. It’s completely off limits.

2) I will not make any suggestions to you about how you live your life or anything at all. In fact, I will not engage you at all unless you engage me first and even then I will not argue, debate, or challenge you in any way. I’d like to still comment on your music but if you don’t want me to I won’t do that either. I won’t even listen to you if that’s what you prefer but I think that would be a real loss for me. Anyway, even if you make a dig at me or if you don’t I’m not going to retort in anyway.

3) I’m not going to question how or why anyone else self-identifies as it’s none of my business and unhelpful.

I’m still gonna be an adolescent dorkus obsessed with ding dongs deez nuts and vaginas because goddamn I’m still gonna be me.

I hope that’s somewhat to your satisfaction.

OccultHawk · 02-05-2021, 04:45 PM

PS I’m still gonna joke around with Marie but not the kind of **** she obviously doesn’t like. Y’all know what I’m saying. Like I might say the Dutch smell like cheese or whatever.

**Marie Monday** · 02-05-2021, 04:51 PM

ribbons · 02-05-2021, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Marie Monday

^ LOL - cool as ever.

Key · 02-05-2021, 05:19 PM

I dont want to have bad vibes with you OH which is why I've not talked much about your ban etc. You just needed a wake up call and to realize your words have consequences and not everyone reacts the same way. For the future, for anyone. I am very sensitive when it comes to my own sexuality and what I do and don't do. I'm not sorry for being offended but just know that I dont like that line crossed. We're still buds OH, you just needed to learn a thing or two.

OccultHawk · 02-05-2021, 05:21 PM

Loud and clear bro

My bad

~~Cuthbert~~ · 02-05-2021, 05:22 PM

I say we all post pictures of our feet to make up.

~~jwb~~ · 02-05-2021, 05:23 PM

All this reconciliation and positivity is making me nauseous

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OccultHawk one-balled nipple jockey Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Dirty Souf Biatch Posts: 22,006	PS I’m still gonna joke around with Marie but not the kind of **** she obviously doesn’t like. Y’all know what I’m saying. Like I might say the Dutch smell like cheese or whatever. __________________ 2016 2017 2018 2019 2020 Member of the Year & Journal of the Year Champion Behold the Writing of THE LEGEND: https://www.musicbanter.com/members-...p-lighter.html

02-05-2021, 05:21 PM	#73838 (permalink)
OccultHawk one-balled nipple jockey Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Dirty Souf Biatch Posts: 22,006	Loud and clear bro My bad __________________ 2016 2017 2018 2019 2020 Member of the Year & Journal of the Year Champion Behold the Writing of THE LEGEND: https://www.musicbanter.com/members-...p-lighter.html

02-05-2021, 05:19 PM	#73837 (permalink)
Key . Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 13,153	I dont want to have bad vibes with you OH which is why I've not talked much about your ban etc. You just needed a wake up call and to realize your words have consequences and not everyone reacts the same way. For the future, for anyone. I am very sensitive when it comes to my own sexuality and what I do and don't do. I'm not sorry for being offended but just know that I dont like that line crossed. We're still buds OH, you just needed to learn a thing or two.

02-05-2021, 05:22 PM	#73839 (permalink)
~~Cuthbert~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: The Black Country Posts: 8,827	I say we all post pictures of our feet to make up.

02-05-2021, 05:23 PM	#73840 (permalink)
~~jwb~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jul 2019 Posts: 4,403	All this reconciliation and positivity is making me nauseous