basically

I mean you can decide to do the right thing but if she tricked you into having the kids you shouldn't be forced to

It just like if a woman gets artificially inseminated and then hits up the sperm donor for child support

Same kid that she can suck out of her sinkhole with impunity

**** it

If a woman sits on a toilet seat and gets pregnant should she be able to leave the kid in the middle of the street? It's not about you. Stop being a whiny bitch.

Child support is unregulated bs that doesnt guarantee the child actually gets supported by the money.. pretty sad.

Yeah see this isn't about what you should or shouldn't have to do, this is about you feeling emasculated at the thought of a woman having power over you. What a ****ing slimeball.

Yeh.. she can abort it or just give it up for adoption

nah I just think this would be more fair

For the same reason prenupts exist.. you should be at least able to try to avoid the scenario where you're forced to pay. If it's voluntary then it will only be relevant if she agrees to it. She has exactly the aiming of power she deserves, in that scenario.

Nah I mean should she be able to just abandon it cause maybe she just decided she doesn't want the kid and doesn't care enough to bother with adoption.

What, you don't know how true it is that a woman can get an abortion or abandon the kid? Really?

And I dunno what you mean by regulation.

If youre talking to me, I think they should have to provide evidence in the form of receipts or something showing that the money is being spent to actually support the child its for.. I know it's anecdotal but I know a good amount of people whose exs use the money for bs like most anyone with free money would do.