I did not know that was a thing for you but I guess you can imagine the feeling of worthlessness when imagining that a parent doesn't even care enough to be there?

I still think it's better to have an absent parent than one who actively resents you or shows how much of a burden you are to them.

I agree. Also, it depends on the specific situation: my father left before I was born and I've never had the feeling of being deserted

It certainly can be, but I don't think it's healthy for a kid to have a contract hanging over their head where the mother agreed to this before they were even conceived. If it were me I'd just be like why the **** did you even get in a relationship with such a person? I mean we're not talking about a one night stand. Nobody but crazy weirdos would offer a contract like that to someone they picked up at a bar. This would probably be someone the woman was in some kind of actual relationship with and she's got this connection with someone who'd abandon a kid and put it in writing? Just seems perverse.

See I was *only* imagining using it with someone I picked up at the bar. Or lucem.

Yeah you're definitely a ****boi magnet.

And what am I supposed to do with THAT information?

https://i.imgur.com/jwsDrP6.jpg?3

Move to New Jersey and consummate with the guy who's been your lobster all this time: DWV.

lol

then women who don't want a kid should get snipped too

And yet abortion exists for a reason