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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 2053839)

Really depends on what your switching the topic from.

That's a dodge. Is it the correct play for almost all topics?

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Originally Posted by Exo (Post 2053828)

I'd consider it more than that. I mean, my gf drove to like an hour because a liquor store had the beer I want. She told me she's looking for a condo to buy with enough room to house my record collection. Our three month "anniversary" consisted of us playing scrabble and drinking PBR because I like those things. Sometimes she wants to split the dinner bill and I'm all like "Nah, I got it." and she's like, no, we should split it, and I'm like "Nah, I like your face and everything else about you so this sh*t is on me" and we look at each other and just enjoy the fact that we're not dead and in the presence of somebody else who gets it.

So, it's more than just "being up in it" a lot lately. I found the person that makes life less miserable and that's a win in my book. I'm gunna tell that girl she pretty like every day.

“I like your face” is a great line. Winner every time unless your OH and the girl is telling you to **** off cause she doesnt want to be around you right now and you think telling her how beautiful she is is a good idea. Not only is that bad advice but it makes you seem desperate and pathetic.

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk (Post 2053786)

1) Do you live in the USA?

^ No, so teaching experiences are likely to be different of course.

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2) Yes. I’m positive.

^ On the topic of telling a girl that she's beautiful, I was curious enough to find an online article written by a girl:

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The 5 Compliments Every Girl Really Wants To Hear From A Guy

1. “THE WAY YOU *insert specific mannerism here* IS REALLY ADORABLE.”
2. “CAN I GET YOUR OPINION ON SOMETHING? YOU ALWAYS HAVE SUCH A GREAT PERSPECTIVE.”
3. “I FEEL SO COMFORTABLE WITH YOU, LIKE I CAN REALLY BE MYSELF.”
4. “YOU TASTE AMAZING.”
5. “EVERY GUY IN THIS ROOM HAS BEEN STARING AT YOU.”

^ So, some things about beauty, but a lot that is more subtle/perceptive. I feel like this vindicates both us really - turns out that we are both right.
EDIT: Plus what DWV has just posted: sometimes compliments work, sometimes they come across as inappropriate. Not exactly "winner every time" as you suggested.

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3) No offense taken. In fact, that’s a compliment afaic

^ Very glad to hear this. If you ever feel that I'm picking on you, it's only because, as well as being outspoken, I see you as a mature, intelligent and responsive poster.

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Originally Posted by Exo (Post 2053805)

Elph,

If you want to f*ck this girl and sh*t? Do it. You're young. I don't mind adhering to the OH formula for young living. Get that VaGee while you're young and mysterious and girls havn't figured out how full of sh*t you are.

I think his current one already has.

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Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls (Post 2053854)

I don't have an OH.

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk (Post 2053772)

Dude

I know you wont trust me but I’m going to tell you anyway

Don’t **** around with sorting **** out or any of that

Whenever you talk to a woman turn the subject toward how beautiful they are

I’m serious af / that’s all women want to hear ever

even if she calls you out for being a shallow piece of **** keep on topic

Her looks she’s beautiful

It never ****ing fails

Others will dispute this but they are wrong

call her and just say you’ve been thinking about how beautiful she is and then mosey off - even if she acts cold it doesn’t matter - women get addicted to it

It hits the crack cocaine pleasure center or something

No. As a woman, if my girl would do this I would run away screaming

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk (Post 2053812)

She wants to be wanted. Therefore she wants to be beautiful.

There lies the problem in your theory I think: being wanted is something vastly more complex than being beautiful. You don't even have to be beautiful to be wanted.

I love reading The Hawk's dating advice.

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Originally Posted by Lisnaholic (Post 2053855)

^ Very glad to hear this. If you ever feel that I'm picking on you, it's only because, as well as being outspoken, I see you as a mature, intelligent and responsive poster.

He sure is responsive.