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The Batlord 07-04-2018 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk (Post 1969950)
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That totally ****ing sucks.

I’m sorry man. That’s ****ing heartbreaking.

To make matters even more depressing the lawyer she hired to present her case to... the disability board didn't do his ****ing job right, so she got turned down and now has to wait two years before being eligible for a new hearing (which is coming up in about a year I guess) with no guarantee that she won't get turned down again and have to reapply yet again. It doesn't help that she's got a mental rather than physical disability that's proven incredibly hard to diagnose due to doctors not really taking her seriously at times.

And of course if you take a job during the time you're waiting to get on disability that immediately shoots your claim in the foot because of course someone with no income should just bleed money for two years so that a few *******s gaming the system don't get to be welfare queens. As a result I'm pretty sure her savings are almost completely gone at this point and she's not even sixty yet.

**** me, man I was gonna leave those five extra beers I have lying around for some other day but that's going out the window right the **** now. God bless, America.

Key 07-04-2018 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1969945)
I guess that's the one good thing about working a garbage fast food job. There's no opportunity to trick myself into thinking there's a desirable future there so I'll probably never wake up one day and realize that I just can't go to work that day as a district manager or whatever and now most of my adult life was in all practical senses of the word a waste.

My mom didn't have a job she hated but a few years ago she got a new boss who basically ran her out, and the job market was/is ****, starting pay for positions she'd be qualified for wouldn't cover her monthly expenses, and to top it all off much of the reason she wasn't able to fight for her job was because she had a long-term, debilitating illness that almost killed her that also prevented her from getting a new job. Now she's got some weird cognitive issues going on that have made it nearly impossible to hold down a job and she's hoping she can get on disability before she loses everything.

Over two decades of a job she liked and was committed to flushed down the drain and the only thing she has to show for it is a house that's now an anchor around her neck, without even the ability to make a new life for herself. That's the kind of **** to destroy your faith in the world.

Holy **** dude. I've never known this I think. Wish there was a way I could help. That's gotta be rough.

Trollheart 07-04-2018 09:09 AM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1969945)
I guess that's the one good thing about working a garbage fast food job. There's no opportunity to trick myself into thinking there's a desirable future there so I'll probably never wake up one day and realize that I just can't go to work that day as a district manager or whatever and now most of my adult life was in all practical senses of the word a waste.

My mom didn't have a job she hated but a few years ago she got a new boss who basically ran her out, and the job market was/is ****, starting pay for positions she'd be qualified for wouldn't cover her monthly expenses, and to top it all off much of the reason she wasn't able to fight for her job was because she had a long-term, debilitating illness that almost killed her that also prevented her from getting a new job. Now she's got some weird cognitive issues going on that have made it nearly impossible to hold down a job and she's hoping she can get on disability before she loses everything.

Over two decades of a job she liked and was committed to flushed down the drain and the only thing she has to show for it is a house that's now an anchor around her neck, without even the ability to make a new life for herself. That's the kind of **** to destroy your faith in the world.

Man I am so sorry about that, dude. I know we all give you **** here like you're just a loser going nowhere, but that's got to be hard to accept and live with. Heart out to you man, heart out.
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Mindy 07-04-2018 09:14 AM

damn hope things get better batlord :o: i have a lot of stressful **** in my life going on but i dont type in down most days. some days i do, (like the door slamming in that one thread), but i mostly just tell everyone here what im eating and sharing videos.


:D youre famous online :o:

Blank. 07-04-2018 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1969945)
I guess that's the one good thing about working a garbage fast food job. There's no opportunity to trick myself into thinking there's a desirable future there so I'll probably never wake up one day and realize that I just can't go to work that day as a district manager or whatever and now most of my adult life was in all practical senses of the word a waste.

My mom didn't have a job she hated but a few years ago she got a new boss who basically ran her out, and the job market was/is ****, starting pay for positions she'd be qualified for wouldn't cover her monthly expenses, and to top it all off much of the reason she wasn't able to fight for her job was because she had a long-term, debilitating illness that almost killed her that also prevented her from getting a new job. Now she's got some weird cognitive issues going on that have made it nearly impossible to hold down a job and she's hoping she can get on disability before she loses everything.

Over two decades of a job she liked and was committed to flushed down the drain and the only thing she has to show for it is a house that's now an anchor around her neck, without even the ability to make a new life for herself. That's the kind of **** to destroy your faith in the world.

****. That sucks. Sorry man. I hope things get better.

grindy 07-04-2018 10:49 AM

A girl I've known from school was murdered six weeks ago.
I haven't seen her in ten years and didn't have any contact, but we used to be friends at some point.
Random guy tried to rape her in broad daylight, she managed to fight him off, he still strangled her.
Today they caught him in Spain.

The Batlord 07-04-2018 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by grindy (Post 1970084)
A girl I've known from school was murdered six weeks ago.
I haven't seen her in ten years and didn't have any contact, but we used to be friends at some point.
Random guy tried to rape her in broad daylight, she managed to fight him off, he still strangled her.
Today they caught him in Spain.

Considering the circumstances I can both kind of understand but still totally not understand what your reaction might be, but I'm assuming rage sums it up to an extent. Sorry bout this ****, man.

grindy 07-04-2018 10:57 AM

It's not like I'm devastated or something, she hasn't been a part of my life for a long time and even back then she was in our group of friends but not like a very close friend.
It's just sad tbh.

rubber soul 07-04-2018 11:06 AM

I'm sorry to hear too, Grindy. Hope her family is hanging in there.

OccultHawk 07-04-2018 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by rubber soul (Post 1970097)
I'm sorry to hear too, Grindy. Hope her family is hanging in there.

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