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EPOCH6 02-06-2018 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1924543)
DUDE!!!! Where ya been?

Vegas, Red Rock Canyon, Pahrump, Shoshone, Dublin Gulch, the ruins of Ashford Mill, Badwater Basin, Furnace Creek, Stovepipe Wells, the ruins of Rhyolite, Beatty, Amargosa Valley, Indian Springs, Valley of Fire State Park, Lake Mead National Park, and Henderson via Harley-Davidson Road King.

Long story short, been riding motorcycles with Pap, reeling in a new bike of my own (next thread in line), writing new tunes with a new band, and planning my next big trip through WA, OR, ID, UT, and MT (coming up in May).

Figured I'd pop in and say hi before disappearing again. How you been?

Trollheart 02-06-2018 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by EPOCH6 (Post 1924535)
What's up, MB? Been a while, what did I miss?

Hey Epoch. Good to see you back.
Everyone thought Batty was dead. Sadly it turned out he had just run over his power cable. How we laughed. We're still laughing. Can't you hear us laughing?

Lucem Ferre 02-07-2018 01:38 AM

So if the police are truly involved in an open case of a violent stalker not only would my friend's wife would have talked to a police officer, which she hasn't, they should have been given a copy of the police report by now. He obviously hasn't because that would have shut me up right off the bat. I personally remember getting one when I was assaulted and robbed with a case number and the detective's number. If he hasn't gotten a copy, which he should have, he has the right to demand a copy even during an open case. After the case is closed the police report becomes public record, meaning that anybody can get a copy for a fee.

I don't know what to do from here. I feel I've confirmed it's bull**** and it's ****ed up that he'd toy with everybody's emotions. I don't think I could be his friend after all the manipulative bull**** he's tried to pull. Should I tell his wife to demand a copy though? If she finds a shred of evidence that he lied their marriage is threw. He told me she'd kill herself if she thought he'd lied. I don't know how much truth is to that, or if he's being manipulative and trying to get me to quit saying it's a lie. And as upset as I'd be to see their marriage destroyed by this, it'd haunt me forever to know she commit suicide over it. But I feel like she deserved to know, because this is ****ed up. Like, she already deals with really bad anxiety and depression and this looming threat is devastating to her. Possibly traumatizing. This situation is ****ed and it makes me emotionally sick and I don't know what to do about it.

The Batlord 02-07-2018 03:04 AM

You need saner friends.

Justthefacts 02-07-2018 03:06 AM

Get in the car. Go home. Jerk off and that's all your're gonna do.

Trollheart 02-07-2018 05:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Justthefacts (Post 1924721)
Get in the car. Go home. Jerk off and that's all your're gonna do.

This.
More or less.
This is NOT your problem, and you've already done, or tried to do, all you could to sort it. It's now their problem. If he lied, HE lied, not you. If you step in between them they'll probably close ranks and attack you, and nothing good will come of it. It's up to you whether you want to dump him as a friend (I would) but don't get any further involved. It'll just go pear-shaped. You don't want to be responsible for anything that might happen, and if something happens afterwards, without you saying anything, that's not your fault. If he's too chicken**** to admit to her he lied, that's his problem and they have to deal with it. I'm sure you have enough problems of your own without taking on those of a shaky marriage with borderline psychosis involved.

Just step back. Let them deal. The door's that way. Use it. And don't look back.

Oriphiel 02-07-2018 05:28 AM

And get a haircut.

OccultHawk 02-07-2018 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Oriphiel (Post 1924728)
And get a haircut.

And an abortion!

The Batlord 02-07-2018 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk (Post 1924741)
And an abortion!

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Originally Posted by Justthefacts (Post 1924721)
Get in the car. Go home. Jerk off and that's all your're gonna do.

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Lucem Ferre 02-07-2018 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Trollheart (Post 1924726)
This.
More or less.
This is NOT your problem, and you've already done, or tried to do, all you could to sort it. It's now their problem. If he lied, HE lied, not you. If you step in between them they'll probably close ranks and attack you, and nothing good will come of it. It's up to you whether you want to dump him as a friend (I would) but don't get any further involved. It'll just go pear-shaped. You don't want to be responsible for anything that might happen, and if something happens afterwards, without you saying anything, that's not your fault. If he's too chicken**** to admit to her he lied, that's his problem and they have to deal with it. I'm sure you have enough problems of your own without taking on those of a shaky marriage with borderline psychosis involved.

Just step back. Let them deal. The door's that way. Use it. And don't look back.

They've already gone on attack. I'll take this advice if proven I'm right, which sucks because that means I have to cut out most of my friends to avoid him.


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