Be proactive and within the limits of the law. You don't want a battery charge (or worse) hanging over your head for the rest of your life.

What about the second paragraph? Warn the intended victim? No? Just leave it and hope it'll somehow all work out?

kill her husband before he gets the chance

cant kill him if he’s already dead

A real friend would start ****ing the wife so the stalker targets you instead.

Church

maybe she should **** the stalker and then he’ll just off himself?

Meerting with the realtors this morning to go over selling this place and finding something smaller (and cheaper).

If it's someone from within their circle of friends I would guess he probably has the same suspicions. Depends really, could be beneficial to tell the husband who he suspects, but if he's wrong then it just makes the whole situation a bigger mess.

That’s a big deal. Good luck and think carefully.

I know everything is relative and this might not be comforting but if you think about it that’s a pretty good problem to have. I mean it’s not as good upward mobility but it beats the **** out of a lot of situations. You have a lot to be proud of. Owning house in southern California is no small achievement.

Just noticed this now: "2017 Member of the Year"! FFS! :D