Originally Posted by Trollheart (Post 1919807)

Would it not make more sense, if you have a good idea who it is, to email or text or even meet him and warn him off, that you know who he is and you'll be watching? Threaten him that you'll go to the cops if he doesn't back off? Do I have a clue what I'm talking about? Sounds ****ed up though, really.

At least tell the husband (or wife) of your suspicions, so that when he meets them again the husband can be on his guard. You never know when someone might just decide to, I don't know, stick a knife in him and walk away....? Forewarned, as they say, gives you two extra arms.

Originally Posted by Man like Monkey (Post 1919810)

I wouldn't give any warnings or let them know I'm on to them, for all I know it could encourage them to get the job done quicker if they think people are closing in.

He needs to be arrested ASAP. Something like this must be awful if you're on the receiving end and I would be raging if the police were slow to act over it.

Originally Posted by Plankton (Post 1919828)

Be proactive and within the limits of the law. You don't want a battery charge (or worse) hanging over your head for the rest of your life.

Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1919866)

A real friend would start ****ing the wife so the stalker targets you instead.