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Old 01-11-2018, 02:14 PM   #47431 (permalink)
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Trollheart, if I could ban your sense of humor I would do it in a heartbeat.
Didn't you make a new rule where people who tell others to kill themselves get banned?

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I definitely did, because why consider logical explanations when you can just wildly project instead?

Now I can finally go back to ruminating over the Maura Murray case instead.
I'm just going to assume that you've been lurking and my disappearance so disturbed you that you could stay silent no longer. Don't bother denying it cause I will choose to have none of it.
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There is only one bright spot and that is the growing habit of disgruntled men of dynamiting factories and power-stations; I hope that, encouraged now as ‘patriotism’, may remain a habit! But it won’t do any good, if it is not universal.
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Old 01-11-2018, 02:16 PM   #47432 (permalink)
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Didn't you make a new rule where people who tell others to kill themselves get banned?
I wasn't telling you to kill yourself; I was merely expressing the belief that this was the only honourable course left open to you.
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Old 01-11-2018, 02:24 PM   #47433 (permalink)
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I'm just going to assume that you've been lurking and my disappearance so disturbed you that you could stay silent no longer. Don't bother denying it cause I will choose to have none of it.
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Old 01-11-2018, 02:27 PM   #47434 (permalink)
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I thought bat lord was chio but now my suspicions have changed.
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Old 01-11-2018, 02:29 PM   #47435 (permalink)
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I wasn't telling you to kill yourself; I was merely expressing the belief that this was the only honourable course left open to you.
The **** is this mealy-mouthed nonsense?
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There is only one bright spot and that is the growing habit of disgruntled men of dynamiting factories and power-stations; I hope that, encouraged now as ‘patriotism’, may remain a habit! But it won’t do any good, if it is not universal.
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Old 01-11-2018, 02:31 PM   #47436 (permalink)
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I sure hope Batlord isn't chio
Me too. **** Texas.
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There is only one bright spot and that is the growing habit of disgruntled men of dynamiting factories and power-stations; I hope that, encouraged now as ‘patriotism’, may remain a habit! But it won’t do any good, if it is not universal.
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The **** is this mealy-mouthed nonsense?
Good to have you back. Now go kill yourself.
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Old 01-11-2018, 02:34 PM   #47438 (permalink)
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Good to have you back. Now go kill yourself.
Exo! Do your job! Don't make me start another thread.
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Old 01-11-2018, 02:34 PM   #47439 (permalink)
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Exo! Do your job! Don't make me start another thread.
Why should he have to kill you?
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Old 01-11-2018, 03:20 PM   #47440 (permalink)
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Back to the real world.

Linda left on 1/2. I spoke with her on 1/8. She pretty much said it's over and that there's nothing that either of us can do to salvage things. I hung up, ran to the bathroom, and threw up.

Little backstory.

As a mother and a father we had to deal with a solid 5 years of a very messed up adult child doing lots of self destructive, and family destructive ****. We fell right into the 'Karpman Drama Triangle' because Mike was so good at playing his mom.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karpman_drama_triangle

The fact that she always chose his side of the triangle over mine for so long, even though the dude was ****ing us both over, destroyed the boyfriend/girlfriend aspect of our relationship.

He finally settled down and then all of the work **** hit the fan. More stress and finacial crap added on top like a frosting.

We were basically only staying together because we weren't in a financial position to do anything else. More roomates than husband and wife. She reached out to her brother in Tucson who offered her free room and board.

She took the plunge and ran away. She didn't even tell the kids. I have no ill will towards her. I completely understand why she had to take a shot of starting over being happy. (I haven't been happy for years either)

We've been keeping touch via IM and it's been very civil and caring. We'd both would still kill or die for each other. 38 years together will do that.

But this has to play out with no pressure. It's been less than 2 weeks. What will be, will be.

TL;DR

Life sucks sometimes.
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