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Blue Hawk · 07-19-2017, 10:37 AM

Stop that gender bias bull****. In some situations, men are to blame. In some situations, women are to blame. Stop generalizing, you dunces.

Trollheart · 07-19-2017, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Blue Hawk

Stop that gender bias bull****. In some situations, men are to blame. In some situations, women are to blame. Stop generalizing, you dunces.

I don't see any post where a gender was mentioned/favoured over another. What are you talking about?

Chiomara · 07-19-2017, 11:22 AM

Yeah, blue hawk, what are you talking about? I did not imply that one gender was more prone to cheating/lying/doxxing than another (notice I said "boyfriend or girlfriend or spouse"/"people lie" etc) aside from my one random example mentioning my sister.

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista

There's a thousand shades of gray when it comes to cheating. Absolutely no easy answers. None. Can't be summed up with a simple quip. There are so many circumstances that can be involved. All three parties play a role. And the roles are completely different in every single individual instance.

There's also emotional cheating-- or close friendships which become vaguely romantic and very emotionally intimate yet not sexual, which some consider to be far worse than strictly physical cheating. Occasionally, I'll hear my neighbor's wife drunkenly screaming at him [and throwing things] late at night about some brief, long-distance Facebook tryst/friendship he had years and years ago. I worry about him sometimes. They both seem miserable.

Sometimes when I'm feeling bad about my most recent failed relationships, I read about one of the horrific soap opera-esque nightmare scenarios on r/Relationships for 5 minutes and feel grateful.

Trollheart · 07-19-2017, 11:24 AM

Chio, I just realised how great your avvy is! If you keep looking at it sidelong while reading your posts, it's like the wolf is speaking!

Blue Hawk · 07-19-2017, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Trollheart

I don't see any post where a gender was mentioned/favoured over another. What are you talking about?

I'm drunk now. Btw, are you a woman?

The Batlord · 07-19-2017, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Blue Hawk

I'm drunk now. Btw, are you a woman?

Yes he is.

Trollheart · 07-19-2017, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Blue Hawk

I'm drunk now. Btw, are you a woman?

I am not.

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Originally Posted by The Batlord

Yes he is.

This statement is false and misleading, to say nothing of confusing.
"Mom jeans" comment imminent...

WWWP · 07-19-2017, 01:20 PM

I agree that there are countless reasons for someone to cheat/be cheated on, and unless you're one of the people in the relationship or if you otherwise become involved (propositioned by the cheater, for example) it's really not your place to judge or make it your business. Like what are the motives for someone to get involved in a stranger's romantic life? Seems like the OP in this case was just looking for a pat on the back or a big "I did the right thing" sticker. Eye roll. Anyway thanks for indulging me, folks.

Ol’ Qwerty Bastard · 07-19-2017, 01:25 PM

i spent 3 hours of my day waiting to the see a doctor so that he could tell me my eye is fine despite the fact that it burns every time i blink and is extremely blood shot. at least i got off work early i guess.

Chula Vista · 07-19-2017, 01:35 PM

It's the role of both people in a relationship to maintain focus on the physical aspects of it. Especially when you are young and really have the sexual hormones flowing.

If one side drops the ball, and refuses to acknowledge it, then outside stimuli can start to creep in on the other side.

We're ****ing animals afterall.

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Trollheart Born to be mild Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: 404 Not Found Posts: 26,994	Chio, I just realised how great your avvy is! If you keep looking at it sidelong while reading your posts, it's like the wolf is speaking! __________________ Trollheart: Signature-free since April 2018

07-19-2017, 01:35 PM	#45220 (permalink)
Chula Vista Toasted Poster Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: SoCal by way of Boston Posts: 11,332	It's the role of both people in a relationship to maintain focus on the physical aspects of it. Especially when you are young and really have the sexual hormones flowing. If one side drops the ball, and refuses to acknowledge it, then outside stimuli can start to creep in on the other side. We're ****ing animals afterall. __________________ “The fact that we live at the bottom of a deep gravity well, on the surface of a gas covered planet going around a nuclear fireball 90 million miles away and think this to be normal is obviously some indication of how skewed our perspective tends to be.”