Yes he is.

I am not.
This statement is false and misleading, to say nothing of confusing.
"Mom jeans" comment imminent...

I agree that there are countless reasons for someone to cheat/be cheated on, and unless you're one of the people in the relationship or if you otherwise become involved (propositioned by the cheater, for example) it's really not your place to judge or make it your business. Like what are the motives for someone to get involved in a stranger's romantic life? Seems like the OP in this case was just looking for a pat on the back or a big "I did the right thing" sticker. Eye roll. Anyway thanks for indulging me, folks.

i spent 3 hours of my day waiting to the see a doctor so that he could tell me my eye is fine despite the fact that it burns every time i blink and is extremely blood shot. at least i got off work early i guess.

It's the role of both people in a relationship to maintain focus on the physical aspects of it. Especially when you are young and really have the sexual hormones flowing.

If one side drops the ball, and refuses to acknowledge it, then outside stimuli can start to creep in on the other side.

We're ****ing animals afterall.

This is why I think it's important to just date people who have a similar sex drive. Otherwise, even if there's plenty of communication and openness I find that guilt-tripping and weird passive aggressiveness and things like that will inevitably emerge. Before I developed the mysterious ability to shut off my sex drive at will when needed, I always felt frustrated by my exes who had totally normal but not high enough sex drives even though I did not at all hold it against them personally. But I still don't agree with those who basically imply that they were forced to cheat or look elsewhere because their partner became depressed or ill or started going through hormonal changes or whatever. (It's even worse when they pretend to be understanding and okay with it while secretly traipsing around elsewhere!)

Oh and btw, maca root is great if any of you have lower libido due to depression or whatever and want to change it. (it doesn't work for everyone, but it's a very well-known side effect of that supplement. It's also good for hormone balance etc.)

You should tell her to suck your armpit hair and call her a hairy cunt next time she calls you a bad feminist.

Yeah! And then quote some Audre Lorde at her.

Suck my armpit hair????????

You know, take it into your mouth, use your tongue, swallow the juices?