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The Batlord · 02-18-2017, 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by pansy gayboy 69

i just feel guilty and gross afterwards its not a nice feeling

indie porn?? so like amateur porn?

like 2 or 3 a day if i'm having a bad day i guess mostly just once a day which is way too much it was never this bad even when i was going through puberty and feeling horny like all the time basically

good solution will look into it thank u

One wank a day? That's ****ing normal, dude. I don't know how religious your family is, but if they're giving you grief over the gay thing then I'm assuming they're not agnostics, so maybe consider that they might have implanted some unhealthy ideas in your mind about sex. I repeat, masturbating once a day, even more than once sometimes, is normal.

kibbeh · 02-18-2017, 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord

One wank a day? That's ****ing normal, dude. I don't know how religious your family is, but if they're giving you grief over the gay thing then I'm assuming they're not agnostics, so maybe consider that they might have implanted some unhealthy ideas in your mind about sex. I repeat, masturbating once a day, even more than once sometimes, is normal.

you don't have to be religious to hate gay people

i know atheists who hate gay people because they think its 'unnatural' i think my family is more worried about what people will think than they are about me 'going to hell' to be honest with u

also once a day feels like too much still

Chula Vista · 02-18-2017, 10:59 AM

As long as you are not giving yourself actual sores you're fine. Jeez when I first discovered masturbation I was doing it so much I was abrasing my skin.

~~Cuthbert~~ · 02-18-2017, 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista

As long as you are not giving yourself actual sores you're fine. Jeez when I first discovered masturbation I was doing it so much I was abrasing my skin.

Foreskins >>>

The Batlord · 02-18-2017, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by pansy gayboy 69

you don't have to be religious to hate gay people

i know atheists who hate gay people because they think its 'unnatural' i think my family is more worried about what people will think than they are about me 'going to hell' to be honest with u

also once a day feels like too much still

True. Although I can't think of any atheists who I've heard say that, but the world is a strange place. But it still sounds more like toxic influences on your mind regarding sex and masturbation (from whatever source) than anything you should feel ashamed about. It's just masturbation. It and porn can be desensitizing, but once a day is hardly a problem.

I'd honestly be more worried about you maintaining this mentality of shame about masturbation, as it sounds like it's contributing to feelings of low self-esteem and an unhealthy attitude towards sex that could get worse and more self-destructive over time.

Feel free to send me a video of you masturbating so that I can judge whether or not you are harming yourself.

Tristan_Geoff · 02-18-2017, 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord

True. Although I can't think of any atheists who I've heard say that, but the world is a strange place.

My atheist friend was pretty misogynist and homophobic... but that comes more from his views on masculinity.

kibbeh · 02-18-2017, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord

True. Although I can't think of any atheists who I've heard say that, but the world is a strange place. But it still sounds more like toxic influences on your mind regarding sex and masturbation (from whatever source) than anything you should feel ashamed about. It's just masturbation. It and porn can be desensitizing, but once a day is hardly a problem.

I'd honestly be more worried about you maintaining this mentality of shame about masturbation, as it sounds like it's contributing to feelings of low self-esteem and an unhealthy attitude towards sex that could get worse and more self-destructive over time.

Feel free to send me a video of you masturbating so that I can judge whether or not you are harming yourself.

lol ***got

The Batlord · 02-18-2017, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by pansy gayboy 69

lol ***got

It's for research purposes so it's not gay. I'm writing a paper on how much I love dick.

kibbeh · 02-18-2017, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Mrs. Tristan Rosenstock

My atheist friend was pretty misogynist and homophobic... but that comes more from his views on masculinity.

yeah i know loads of guys who are not religious at all but are like afraid of gay people lol

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It's for research purposes so it's not gay. I'm writing a paper on how much I love dick.

how do you research how much you love dick

DwnWthVwls · 02-18-2017, 11:34 AM

I dont have time now but ill touch on the porn thing in a bit. Dont listen to half the people who answered you and def check out nofap.

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