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Key · 12-05-2016, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Lucem Ferre

I wasn't meaning to be dick. It's just that Ki has been a whiny pussy, we all have **** we are going through, he's constantly whining. So no, having emotions doesn't make you the pussy. It's how you portray them.

Edit: I mean that in the nicest way possible. We all have moments when we are whiny pussies.

Yeah, because talking down to me when I'm already down is the best form of advice. Everyone here has been wonderful in regards to helping me cope, but you feel it's better to kick me when I've already been kicked hard enough. I'm not trying to be mean, but god forbid I'm open about something when I usually never open about anything.

If you'd like, I can say **** it and let it effect me outside of here, but I'm in a bad place, and company is better than none.

Mindy · 12-05-2016, 05:20 PM

woke up with a lot of anxiety, then got a text with bad news. decided to go waling because it was sunny outside.
then i went to a movie but i didnt finish the movie

now im listening to some asmr videos then im going to bed

Paedantic Basterd · 12-05-2016, 05:21 PM

Whaling?

Lucem Ferre · 12-05-2016, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Paedantic Basterd

God forbid he deals with things differently than you do.

You missed my edit when I said we all have moments when we are whiny pussies.

I had a time when I was a raging pussy like that, and I was called out on it. Those people I don't think are dicks for treating me like the whiny bitch I was being. They are just calling a spade a spade. Life never got better, I just learned to stop being a whiny pussy. It is what it is. Then again, I was much more aggressive and a bigger ass than Ki is. Personally, I appreciate the honesty and some those people that called me out for being a raging **** were the first ones to offer condolences or a hand when something fowl happens.

Also, how are people going to lay in on me for calling him a whiny pussy because he's going through a 'rough time' when he was going off on somebody with mental illness the same way? I offered him the option to PM me **** if he needs to talk when he went of on that tantrum about killing himself in the box below. He has not ever taken advantage of it. Instead he whines in here. Why is that?

Key · 12-05-2016, 05:23 PM

On the topic of addiction, I've had to watch my older brother become a "living on the street heroin addict and dealer" kind of person, so forgive me if my current situation hits me pretty hard. Most people would never deal with one addict in their life, let alone i'm dealing with coping with 2. I know this doesn't make a difference, but maybe it'll help realize where I'm coming from.

The Batlord · 12-05-2016, 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki

Yeah, because talking down to me when I'm already down is the best form of advice. Everyone here has been wonderful in regards to helping me cope, but you feel it's better to kick me when I've already been kicked hard enough. I'm not trying to be mean, but god forbid I'm open about something when I usually never open about anything.

If you'd like, I can say **** it and let it effect me outside of here, but I'm in a bad place, and company is better than none.

TBH I think getting out of your parents house and back into an apartment would be a better help than getting laid. I imagine after all this your self-esteem is probably shot and getting back on track with a job and a place of your own would be a serious boost, while also getting you back into your old, self-sufficient mindstate. LiL losing track of you would be a bonus.

And yes, I fully realize the irony of me telling you this.

Key · 12-05-2016, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Lucem Ferre

You missed my edit when I said we all have moments when we are whiny pussies.

I had a time when I was a raging pussy like that, and I was called out on it. Those people I don't think are dicks for treating me like the whiny bitch I was being. They are just calling a spade a spade. Life never got better, I just learned to stop being a whiny pussy. It is what it is. Then again, I was much more aggressive and a bigger ass than Ki is. Personally, I appreciate the honesty and some those people that called me out for being a raging **** were the first ones to offer condolences or a hand when something fowl happens.

Also, how are people going to lay in on me for calling him a whiny pussy because he's going through a 'rough time' when he was going off on somebody with mental illness the same way? I offered him the option to PM me **** if he needs to talk when he went of on that tantrum about killing himself in the box below. He has not ever taken advantage of it. Instead he whines in here. Why is that?

The point is, you have a terrible way of helping. I yelled at WD because he's done nothing BUT come here and complain. I come here to talk about music and whatever else. Sometimes I'm weak. Sorry.

Paedantic Basterd · 12-05-2016, 05:24 PM

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Key · 12-05-2016, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord

TBH I think getting out of your parents house and back into an apartment would be a better help than getting laid. I imagine after all this your self-esteem is probably shot and getting back on track with a job and a place of your own would be a serious boost, while also getting you back into your old, self-sufficient mindstate. LiL losing track of you would be a bonus.

And yes, I fully realize the irony of me telling you this.

No I totally agree with this, and that's the end goal of course. I'm just stuck in a day to day thing right now and hopefully once the holidays are done, i'll be able to really get out and continue my life. It's been on hold for too long.

**Exo** · 12-05-2016, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Lucem Ferre

You missed my edit when I said we all have moments when we are whiny pussies.

I had a time when I was a raging pussy like that, and I was called out on it. Those people I don't think are dicks for treating me like the whiny bitch I was being. They are just calling a spade a spade. Life never got better, I just learned to stop being a whiny pussy. It is what it is. Then again, I was much more aggressive and a bigger ass than Ki is. Personally, I appreciate the honesty and some those people that called me out for being a raging **** were the first ones to offer condolences or a hand when something fowl happens.

Also, how are people going to lay in on me for calling him a whiny pussy because he's going through a 'rough time' when he was going off on somebody with mental illness the same way? I offered him the option to PM me **** if he needs to talk when he went of on that tantrum about killing himself in the box below. He has not ever taken advantage of it. Instead he whines in here. Why is that?

You're seriously so bad at helping. Ki is literally telling you to stop helping. Stop man. You suck at it.

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Mindy ask me about cosmology Join Date: Oct 2016 Location: Milky Way Galaxy Posts: 8,991	woke up with a lot of anxiety, then got a text with bad news. decided to go waling because it was sunny outside. then i went to a movie but i didnt finish the movie now im listening to some asmr videos then im going to bed

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Paedantic Basterd Music Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 5,184	Whaling?

12-05-2016, 05:23 PM	#41075 (permalink)
Key . Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 13,153	On the topic of addiction, I've had to watch my older brother become a "living on the street heroin addict and dealer" kind of person, so forgive me if my current situation hits me pretty hard. Most people would never deal with one addict in their life, let alone i'm dealing with coping with 2. I know this doesn't make a difference, but maybe it'll help realize where I'm coming from.