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12-05-2016, 02:47 PM | #41011 (permalink) | |
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12-05-2016, 02:49 PM | #41012 (permalink) | |
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Jesus Christ you can't ever win with anybody when you try and be conscious of PC issues. Doesn't matter what you say or do, there's always someone to bitch about how or why you did it. |
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12-05-2016, 02:50 PM | #41013 (permalink) | |
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You only feel 'guilty' because you still have feelings for her, Ki. Feelings that you are in denial of and we all know it's bull****. So what you need to do is get laid. Because despite the fact that you have become a whiny little pussy you could probably find better than her.
Edit: Actually, don't listen to me, I don't give the best life advice. Edit: I meant on the getting laid part. That probably won't help, but it's worth a try.
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12-05-2016, 02:51 PM | #41014 (permalink) | |
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12-05-2016, 02:53 PM | #41015 (permalink) | ||
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Gee, all kinds of advise here. Edit: See? Quote:
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12-05-2016, 02:53 PM | #41016 (permalink) | |
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12-05-2016, 02:55 PM | #41017 (permalink) | |
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That I did. Ped... quit being an idiot. It's a tattoo, not a feathered headdress.
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12-05-2016, 03:01 PM | #41018 (permalink) |
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Oh Plank.
Thing is, if I got rid of everyone in my life who had a personality defect, there'd be nobody left, because we're all flawed individuals who need to learn how to negotiate and tolerate one another's bull****. Certainly there needs to be a bull**** threshold, but it can't be that low. People don't ever see themselves as "I want my friend to do something that makes her uncomfortable". What they perceive is "my friend is lecturing me because she thinks she knows more than me" or "my friend doesn't like the idea and is trying to convince me not to do it passive-aggressively" or "my friend is trying to control what I do with my body". Cultivating long-term friendships is a giant game of reading, reacting to, and reframing people's behaviour so you don't hate each other after like 2 years of friendship. And yes, it's possible that this is largely what it's like to cultivate female friendships rather than male ones, but the quality is also different for what you put into it. So maybe I don't have to put up with any of Tom or Ian's bull****, but I also can't ask them to listen and support me when I have an existential crisis either. |
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12-05-2016, 03:27 PM | #41020 (permalink) |
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it's true. if you really want to make her mad tell her to 'check her privilege'
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