djchameleon

Have you thought about seeking professional help? Therapist or Psych?

I saw my therapist today. He has gotten better about letting me speak. My therapist was so bad at his job that he would take up 45 mins of my hour session talking himself instead of letting me talk.


Also yes batty, she has you dead to rights. You do look like you would be into pegging.

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Fame, fortune, power, titties. People say these are the most crucial things in life, but you can have a pocket full o' gold and it doesn't mean sh*t if you don't have someone to share that gold with. Seems simple. Yet it's an important lesson to learn. Even lone wolves run in packs sometimes.

Key

I've tried it but I'm not comfortable with it, so it just made it awkward and I felt like I was lying to them. I also felt judgement about everything I said so I decided to stop going.

A lot of it stems from my anxiety that I've had since a kid and my inability to let go of a situation that I have no control over.

Basically, i'm too compassionate towards things that don't deserve my attention.

djchameleon

Ahh okay, therapy isn't for everyone but sometimes it helps.

Last sentence hits kind of close to home to me but I feel like over time I've grown out of it.

But I got to the point where I take the serenity prayer to heart.

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference.

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Fame, fortune, power, titties. People say these are the most crucial things in life, but you can have a pocket full o' gold and it doesn't mean sh*t if you don't have someone to share that gold with. Seems simple. Yet it's an important lesson to learn. Even lone wolves run in packs sometimes.

Key

Damn. That hits home as well. I'm not religious at all, but I really like that.

It's just how I've always been, and even if I can't help a situation, I try to, and when I don't, I blame myself. It's a ****ty reason to be upset, but that's how my brain works.

djchameleon

yeah I'm not religious but I've always been spiritual. I don't go to church but I've always had this spiritual connection with the world around me I guess. So I apply that prayer to my daily living and it works to help keep me calm.

Yeah it's something that maybe you can slowly work on but don't beat yourself up about it.

We are all works in progress.

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Fame, fortune, power, titties. People say these are the most crucial things in life, but you can have a pocket full o' gold and it doesn't mean sh*t if you don't have someone to share that gold with. Seems simple. Yet it's an important lesson to learn. Even lone wolves run in packs sometimes.

The Batlord

Things people say that make me want to punch them #72,048.

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djchameleon

You do know there is a difference right? Or do I need to explain it to you?

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Fame, fortune, power, titties. People say these are the most crucial things in life, but you can have a pocket full o' gold and it doesn't mean sh*t if you don't have someone to share that gold with. Seems simple. Yet it's an important lesson to learn. Even lone wolves run in packs sometimes.

Key

Being spiritual and not being religious is a pretty common practice. I don't see the problem.

The Batlord

But the people who say it are twats.

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djchameleon

What are they supposed to say then?

It's an important distinction to be made.

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Fame, fortune, power, titties. People say these are the most crucial things in life, but you can have a pocket full o' gold and it doesn't mean sh*t if you don't have someone to share that gold with. Seems simple. Yet it's an important lesson to learn. Even lone wolves run in packs sometimes.