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ladyislingering 05-27-2015 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1594802)
Your belongings were violated. All the other things are whiny bull****. You JUST said that it happened too quickly for you to be able to stop him, so logically speaking, he did not have the time to threaten you in any way, shape, or form. Quit playing the martyr and shrug it off like an adult.

I'm mostly over it, just a little pissed off that there weren't even surveillance cameras in the bus I was on when this happened. I'm glad that the kid got what was coming to him - just like the officer said, the kid made his choice to attempt to commit a crime and he needs to be punished. And it's not the first time for that shithead, either. I don't care about his life situation, who he is, where he's from, any of that. I. Don't. Care. He's a juvenile delinquent scumbag.



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Innocent my ass. You are vindictive and cruel to a Saturday morning cartoon villain level. Of the two of you, you are easily behaving the most reprehensible, and a good parental, five-across-the-eyes might be in order to get you to start thinking like a human being.
Please. I consider myself a compassionate, kind individual. To those who deserve it and actually have something to contribute to society instead of acting like morons, screwing with people for no reason, and just generally being complete wastes of oxygen. Decent human beings are worthy of my unending love.

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Oh, Jesus Christ. A.) Don't play the sexism card. It's bull****, and you're just using it as an excuse to avoid responsibility for showing complete disregard for human life... over a ****ing purse! B.) About the purse, if there's anything sex related here, it's that a man wouldn't have to deal with this, because for the most part we don't carry purses. Boom. Male supremacy.
That purse has all kinds of things I don't have time or patience to try to replace. That idiot could have cost me so much money, it's ridiculous. Maybe he should get a goddamn job. Oh, wait, he'll probably never amount to anything anyway.

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And you would have been arrested and charged with murder over killing a purse snatcher. And you'd deserve it too.
nah, I'd probably be let off.

the law tends to favor the word of an innocent-looking, crying young lady.

in fact I think the officer who was helping me out with my statement was well aware that I was swooning, and complimented me many times on various things.

he was a delight. :love: I adore police officers. Never been hassled, always been able to count on them to show me the way to things and protect me when I needed it.

Death is a bit harsh but something's gotta be done with that freak before he has the chance to kill/seriously injure someone else. Some people are just completely useless. Absolutely, completely useless.

fiddler 05-27-2015 07:19 PM

Y'all need to seriously step off and cut the B.S. If it had of been YOU, you'd be experiencing the same feelings. You might not admit it, or even realize it, but you would be. If you are attacked, such as she was, it violates your sense of security and person. And yes, she was attacked. And you can't tell me you wouldn't be feeling that way or that you wouldn't be pissed either, because you would be. Male victims are often times more violent and on a statistical level feel more of their sense of security violated.

YorkeDaddy 05-27-2015 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by fiddler (Post 1594810)
Y'all need to seriously step off and cut the B.S. If it had of been YOU, you'd be experiencing the same feelings. You might not admit it, or even realize it, but you would be. If you are attacked, such as she was, it violates your sense of security and person. And yes, she was attacked. And you can't tell me you wouldn't be feeling that way or that you wouldn't be pissed either, because you would be. Male victims are often times more violent and on a statistical level feel more of their sense of security violated.

If someone tried to steal something from me I would not wish death upon them. If I did I would be far, far worse than the thief. So basically shut the **** up and quit defending this piece of filth

DwnWthVwls 05-27-2015 07:22 PM

I used to sell drugs. I've been stuck, I never had any of those feelings.

ladyislingering 05-27-2015 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by fiddler (Post 1594810)
Y'all need to seriously step off and cut the B.S. If it had of been YOU, you'd be experiencing the same feelings. You might not admit it, or even realize it, but you would be. If you are attacked, such as she was, it violates your sense of security and person. And yes, she was attacked. And you can't tell me you wouldn't be feeling that way or that you wouldn't be pissed either, because you would be. Male victims are often times more violent and on a statistical level feel more of their sense of security violated.

:clap: thank you.

I had one (just one) male friend who was completely and absolutely furious that this happened to me. He identifies as a feminist and he's an all-around intelligent young man who I'm lucky to know. However, I told my story to the most important women in my life and EVERY ONE OF THEM was aghast, arms outstretched, telling me they were glad I'm ok.

Even the officer I spent some time with told me that I'm lucky I didn't get punched in the face or knifed, because that does happen. In the back of every woman's mind (and at the forefront whenever we're being trailed or within close quarters of suspicious or brutish looking men) is the agonizing thought that we could easily be victims of crime because we're seen as easy prey. We can't let our guard down because something might happen to us. What was supposed to be a relaxing bus trip after 9 hours of running around a packed store on a major holiday sale turned into a traumatic event that's left me paranoid and reevaluating my transportation choices.

fiddler 05-27-2015 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by YorkeDaddy (Post 1594815)
If someone tried to steal something from me I would not wish death upon them. If I did I would be far, far worse than the thief. So basically shut the **** up and quit defending this piece of filth

You can try to remain level headed all you like, but in the after math of anything such as this, the first thought that ANYBODY goes to is "kill the fucker!". I highly doubt that she would seriously now kill the guy in cold blood. Anger tends to taint the water like food coloring. In fact, had of it been a male victim he would have probably tackled the guy and kicked his rear end right on the street.

Josef K 05-27-2015 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering (Post 1594798)
I just happen to have very strong feelings about being treated like a human being worthy of being respected well enough for worthless thugs to realize that they shouldn't be trying to steal **** from innocent young ladies who have never done one goddamn thing to them.

Just because you, a man, have the privilege of being able to do as you please without even the slightest worry that some asshole's gonna try to mess with you just because they think they can get away with it or that they're entitled to whatever you have that they want, doesn't mean you have any sensible reason to dismiss my reaction to what happened to me. Take a seat.

I agree. You should be treated like a human. So should the kid who tried to steal your purse. I really don't think it's appropriate in almost any context to spell out the various ways you wish you could kill somebody, especially somebody who is basically a child, but if it were a reaction to actual trauma I'd get it. Here, somebody tried to steal your purse and then he dropped it within like thirty seconds, and instead of taking your purse and going about your day (maybe after notifying the police), you were like "I WANT HIM DEAD"

I'm dismissing your reaction not because nobody has ever tried to mess with me (by the way, I don't understand why you don't think people think they can get away with stealing stuff from me or assaulting me or whatever - I'm a 15-year-old who walks with a slight but noticeable limp, I'm slightly shorter than average and I'm seriously underweight. I'd be a very easy target), but because I don't think that having such a callous attitude toward other people's lives ought to be acceptable, nor do I think that casually using ableist slurs because you don't like somebody ought to be acceptable.

If you don't see valuing the lives of humans as "sensible" (yes, even humans who tried to steal somebody's purse once when they were kids), then I don't think we have anything else to talk about.

ladyislingering 05-27-2015 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by YorkeDaddy (Post 1594815)
If someone tried to steal something from me I would not wish death upon them. If I did I would be far, far worse than the thief. So basically shut the **** up and quit defending this piece of filth

I'm a "piece of filth" for being angry with a punk ass kid for thinking he's entitled to whatever's in my purse? Have you ever touched a woman in your entire life? Because I feel sorry for them for being graced with the presence of something so disgusting.

YorkeDaddy 05-27-2015 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by fiddler (Post 1594819)
You can try to remain level headed all you like, but in the after math of anything such as this, the first thought that ANYBODY goes to is "kill the fucker!". I highly doubt that she would seriously now kill the guy in cold blood. Anger tends to taint the water like food coloring. In fact, had of it been a male victim he would have probably tackled the guy and kicked his rear end right on the street.

Uh no that's exclusively the first thought that a pathetic piece of **** would have, whereas a normal human being that values other lives would say "I hope he learns his lesson and betters himself". Now I'm concerned that you fall under the first category

Key 05-27-2015 07:30 PM

Nothing wrong with being a piece of ****. I'm a piece of ****.


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