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fiddler · 05-16-2015, 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Pet_Sounds

A bird hit my window this morning, and crashed in the garden, which is unfortunately a hangout for neighbourhood cats. I relocated him to a tree, where he'd be safer. Cutest little fellow ever (apparently a Nashville Warbler), wouldn't let go of my finger. My mom got a picture of me holding him; maybe I'll upload it sometime. I watched him sit in the tree for about ten minutes, then he recovered his wits and flew off. It put a smile on my face.

You saved that little birdie's life.

Chula Vista · 05-16-2015, 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by fiddler

You saved that little birdie's life.

Shhh. Pet Sounds is Music Banter's Chuck. He just hangs here for cover.

ladyislingering · 05-16-2015, 10:07 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord

You're missing the basic point. If you tell a girl you like her, you should at least leave a five second pause to see if she doesn't recoil in disgust. If she doesn't, say something other than, "Peace out, bitches!"

You're both missing the point.

If a girl friendzone/brozones you, you still have a purpose in her life.

You are her friend or bother unit and you need to respect that, relish in it, and keep her in your life.

Just because she doesn't wanna bang you doesn't mean she has no use in your daily life.

Chula Vista · 05-16-2015, 10:08 PM

Lil, get your ass over to Plug.

ladyislingering · 05-16-2015, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista

Lil, get your ass over to Plug.

dude, I was totally just there and it was just me an' you so I left a cutesy little message.

The Batlord · 05-16-2015, 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering

You're both missing the point.

If a girl friendzone/brozones you, you still have a purpose in her life.

You are her friend or bother unit and you need to respect that, relish in it, and keep her in your life.

Just because she doesn't wanna bang you doesn't mean she has no use in your daily life.

Not if you're just going to be miserable pining after her. You can't just turn that **** off, so it's best for you if you just stop torturing yourself and put some distance between you... AFTER YOU'VE MADE YOUR PLAY!!!

ladyislingering · 05-16-2015, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord

Not if you're just going to be miserable pining after her. You can't just turn that **** off, so it's best for you if you just stop torturing yourself and put some distance between you... AFTER YOU'VE MADE YOUR PLAY!!!

I've experienced this with men I've had a major smitten feeling for (but have wanted nothing to do with me) and while you're correct, it's not nice to make a bold move with someone who's made their intentions clear.

fiddler · 05-16-2015, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering

I've experienced this with men I've had a major smitten feeling for (but have wanted nothing to do with me) and while you're correct, it's not nice to make a bold move with someone who's made their intentions clear.

I definitely see where you're coming from, and while I never condone anyone doing something to someone else without their consent, it sucks being friend-zoned. I think girls tend to think it's a nice gesture, but to guys it's generally not. It's "you're not good enough for me to date" to most guys, I think.

ladyislingering · 05-16-2015, 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted by fiddler

I definitely see where you're coming from, and while I never condone anyone doing something to someone else without their consent, it sucks being friend-zoned. I think girls tend to think it's a nice gesture, but to guys it's generally not. It's "you're not good enough for me to date" to most guys, I think.

it isn't that they're not good enough.

sometimes a dude just doesn't meet us on a soul-level.

that's really important.

and it's not your fault, you're just a bit different from us and we don't wanna spend time on someone who we know won't fulfill us the way we need someone to.

The Batlord · 05-16-2015, 10:37 PM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering

I've experienced this with men I've had a major smitten feeling for (but have wanted nothing to do with me) and while you're correct, it's not nice to make a bold move with someone who's made their intentions clear.

Well in that case, skip the play and just unfriend her on Facebook. That should send a clear message.

05-16-2015, 10:08 PM	#32054 (permalink)
Chula Vista Toasted Poster Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: SoCal by way of Boston Posts: 11,332	Lil, get your ass over to Plug. __________________ “The fact that we live at the bottom of a deep gravity well, on the surface of a gas covered planet going around a nuclear fireball 90 million miles away and think this to be normal is obviously some indication of how skewed our perspective tends to be.”