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Originally Posted by Sequoioideae (Post 1590300)

Well, if it makes you feel any better I tried and failed with some chick I had been talking to for three months. It's hard for me to connect emotionally with people, and she was cute too, and a fantastic artist. She was going through some trouble financially and I bought some of her art to help her out because I really like her work and I wanted to support her. After I hung out with her a few days ago I told her how I felt, and that I was sorry I couldn't be friends with her and that I tried multiple times to put my feelings aside but couldn't. I told her that I was sorry, and not to think it's her fault, and we probably shouldn't talk anymore because my feelings would be harmful to our friendship, and I reassured her that it was my fault, not hers.

You'll probably do a lot better than me, I'm just some ugly awkward skinny white dude no one finds attractive.

"I really, really like you, and so we should never speak again." Wut?

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1590318)

"I really, really like you, and so we should never speak again." Wut?

I was 100% sure she only viewed me as a friend, and I tried to do the same, but couldn't.

Most of the time when you get turned down by a girl, she's a little hung-up on something she doesn't like about you - or she's smitten for someone else.

It's not your fault, Seq. It's on her.

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Originally Posted by Sequoioideae (Post 1590319)

I was 100% sure she only viewed me as a friend, and I tried to do the same, but couldn't.

Sounds like you may have ruined a perfect chance. I would have seen where it went.

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Originally Posted by fiddler (Post 1590160)

Go for it! You'll never know unless you do, and he could be waiting for you to make the first move.

Ding ding ding.

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering (Post 1590304)

I'd slap you right in the face for saying such an untrue, foolish thing but I don't believe in damaging the faces of lovely young men.

Screw it, slap him twice.

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1590326)

Ding ding ding.

Screw it, slap him twice.

I did mean to say "she" there not "he" oops.:soapbox:

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1590326)

Screw it, slap him twice.

not even a chance!!

gentle consolation and major hugs for young, brokenhearted Seq.

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering (Post 1590330)

not even a chance!!

gentle consolation and major hugs for young, brokenhearted Seq.

Keep the slap in your back pocket though.

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Originally Posted by Sequoioideae (Post 1590319)

I was 100% sure she only viewed me as a friend, and I tried to do the same, but couldn't.

You're missing the basic point. If you tell a girl you like her, you should at least leave a five second pause to see if she doesn't recoil in disgust. If she doesn't, say something other than, "Peace out, bitches!"

A bird hit my window this morning, and crashed in the garden, which is unfortunately a hangout for neighbourhood cats. I relocated him to a tree, where he'd be safer. Cutest little fellow ever (apparently a Nashville Warbler), wouldn't let go of my finger. My mom got a picture of me holding him; maybe I'll upload it sometime. I watched him sit in the tree for about ten minutes, then he recovered his wits and flew off. It put a smile on my face.