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Originally Posted by PipersLabyrinthX

Yeah. It hurts me to think that I fell for some of the worst lines in the world. Not that they were corny, just that they meant so much to me and he just threw them out there. He told me the second day I knew him he wanted to "keep me forever" and that just sounded so sweet. He would tell me he missed me and wanted me to drive out and see him, then he would precede to say he wanted to get married and have kids someday, he would even say really soon, which I'm 17 and that would NEVER happen. But after sex he would go into another room and somewhat ignore me. And I really cant believe I was so blind to everything. I'm so stupid sometimes. I even got into a huge fight with my parents for him, I defended him, and it was in vain now.

I just feel so ****ing used and he's not calling me to talk and I really dont see this lasting through the night. Why the hell do I attract these guys?

how long have you been seeing him, and how old is he? those things could have something to do with how he acts in a relatinship. Might just be his personality and not you after all.
Why do you think he's cheating?
have you met his friends or family or both?
does he inclued you in his life outside of the sexual things?
does he only say sweet things right before sex and or during.. then leave the room afterwords?
does he still talk about a future with you?
were you easy going into the relationship?
would you drop anything to do something for him if he asked.. or even if he didn't?
are you the one that seems to care about his needs more so then your own?
is this relationship starting to come between other parts of your life?
why did you and your parents fight about him?
does he hang out with other women?
does he make plans with you, or you with him.. the he cancels?

anyways depending on these answers you could be going out with a jerk or a normal guy..
just ask yourself those questions and see what your answers are and you should be able to figure things out from there.

and if you answer them bad.. then you have emotional problems and thats probably why you always end up with the jerk.

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants

omfg!
eimp!
lets ask a shit load of questions that the answers are all MINDNUMBINGLY OBVIOUS ANYWAY & tell ourselves we look insightful & helpful!
yeah!

I'm glad someone else said that...

I smell someone getting owned.

well, the thread already stinks of it, so are you surprised?

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Originally Posted by ArtistInTheAmbulance

omfg!
eimp!
lets ask a shit load of questions that the answers are all MINDNUMBINGLY OBVIOUS ANYWAY & tell ourselves we look insightful & helpful!
yeah!

wow, when the **** did you turn into a bitch?
I'm a helpful person, those were questions that women should ask themselves when there in a shitty relationship.

I think... no, I don't know what she meant, but I think Pipers has already asked herself those questions and knows full well what the answers are, as does everyone else here. We've just had at least 2 pages of posts about it, hence the bitchiness

oh pssh, i wouldnt change myself for you, dont flatter yourself.
it was a dumb post.
you cant deny that.

Maybe someone should start a 'Bitchy Box' thread...and keep the cat fights in there.

I already made a help the mb family thread... this conversation would fit in there perfectly.