Your Day

YorkeDaddy · 02-14-2014, 02:49 PM

Well on top of two broken ribs, a ton of snow came down today out of nowhere and the roads are nearly un-drivable.

#bestvalentinesday

WWWP · 02-14-2014, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Taxman

This feels awful. So, you know the feeling when someone you really care for, is having troubles and you feel like you can do nothing to help?

So, one of my friends, one of the best ones, has a depression. She was seeing the schools psychologist for a while last year, but she quit and said she's getting better.
Last autumn it started again, or maybe it never went out and she just pretended she was allright. It has been clear that she hasn't been totally allright, but it seemed like it was still an improvement. But it was not.
When we finally found out that she was trying to hide it, she admitted the whole thing. Allright, I was suffering a mild depression for awhile, but that case of hers, it's not mild. It's very serious. She said she's not self-destructive, but yet she admits she's been hurting herself. And that she was for a while a bit suicidal, even.
Still, she refuses to accept help and it's a miracle she even admitted it, but thus is an awful feeling. How can anyone help her if she refuses to accept help? And it's terrible to feel constant fear. And when someone you really care suffers, you don't feel good yourself.

The best thing you can do is let her know you're there for her and then, in the event that she needs you, actually follow through and be there for her. Don't try to fix her or make things better, just don't let her forget she's not alone.

ladyislingering · 02-14-2014, 08:42 PM

Ki and I are celebrating 2 years together on this lovely day.

It's been stressful with some irritating maintenance in our building and he's been at work most of the day but none of that actually changes how grateful I am for his love. We don't need to go all-out and make a huge deal about it because we know it's a special day regardless.

YorkeDaddy · 02-14-2014, 08:53 PM

Still managed to take the lady out to dinner and my injury didnt affect much. Now we're having a romantic movie night in our dimly light apartment and champaigne

**Frownland** · 02-14-2014, 10:16 PM

Happy Valentine's Day MB

GuD · 02-14-2014, 10:52 PM

Is that the dude from the chicken scene in Pink Flamingo??

GD · 02-15-2014, 10:01 AM

I went to 2 record stores today and neither of them had the CD's I wanted.

Plankton · 02-15-2014, 12:09 PM

Got my first commission today for creating music for a start up company. This could be the beginning of something big. *fingers crossed*

The rep also mentioned that she needs some artwork, and had mentioned she was interested in Poor Old Po's work that I used in a few YooToob vids of my music.

Example:

I need to contact Po (I PM'ed him on Bookface), but time is short, so I called another artist friend of mine that is working on it. I'd do it myself, but I haven't been creating anything with that type of medium in quite a while.

Paul Smeenus · 02-15-2014, 12:47 PM

^ sweet, man

RoxyRollah · 02-15-2014, 01:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Plankton

Got my first commission today for creating music for a start up company. This could be the beginning of something big. *fingers crossed*

The rep also mentioned that she needs some artwork, and had mentioned she was interested in Poor Old Po's work that I used in a few YooToob vids of my music.

Example:

I need to contact Po (I PM'ed him on Bookface), but time is short, so I called another artist friend of mine that is working on it. I'd do it myself, but I haven't been creating anything with that type of medium in quite a while.

Congratulations darling...

02-14-2014, 08:42 PM	#26723 (permalink)
ladyislingering Maelian Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Seattle Posts: 695	Ki and I are celebrating 2 years together on this lovely day. It's been stressful with some irritating maintenance in our building and he's been at work most of the day but none of that actually changes how grateful I am for his love. We don't need to go all-out and make a huge deal about it because we know it's a special day regardless. __________________ You and I, We were born to die.

02-14-2014, 10:16 PM	#26725 (permalink)
Frownland SOPHIE FOREVER Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: East of the Southern North American West Posts: 35,541	Happy Valentine's Day MB __________________ Studies show that when a given norm is changed in the face of the unchanging, the remaining contradictions will parallel the truth. d e a f b o x

02-14-2014, 10:52 PM	#26726 (permalink)
GuD Dude... What? Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 1,322	Is that the dude from the chicken scene in Pink Flamingo?? __________________ I spit bullets in my feet Every time I speak So I write instead And still people want me dead ~msc

02-15-2014, 10:01 AM	#26727 (permalink)
GD ???pp? ??snW Join Date: Nov 2013 Location: NO Posts: 686	I went to 2 record stores today and neither of them had the CD's I wanted. __________________ lasty\|rate-y music-y

02-15-2014, 12:09 PM	#26728 (permalink)
Plankton Just Keep Swimming... Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: See signature... Posts: 7,765	Got my first commission today for creating music for a start up company. This could be the beginning of something big. fingers crossed The rep also mentioned that she needs some artwork, and had mentioned she was interested in Poor Old Po's work that I used in a few YooToob vids of my music. Example: I need to contact Po (I PM'ed him on Bookface), but time is short, so I called another artist friend of mine that is working on it. I'd do it myself, but I haven't been creating anything with that type of medium in quite a while. __________________ See location...