I thought everyone wishes their exes harm in some way or another? Not by your own hand, but by outside influences

Not in my world.

Must just be a Kiwi thing *shrugs*

Some people even like to remind friends with their exes and keep in touch with them.

I feel like that is going too far. I cut most of my exes completely out of my life.

I agree though i've recanted on one decision.

I'm on great terms with all of my exes but this mother****er. The majority of my breakups have been mutual and civil - because those are the kind of people I gravitate toward.

It's the old saying "You never know a person until you have to live with them" and that's were you soon learn that person is a total headcase. Until then as far as you know they're all sweetness and light

It is. A large number of my exes I stayed friends with and one ex and I kept kissing at random times when I visited.

See! one of my ex visits from time to time and she's tried it on a few times and that just sets for making things uncomfortable when one thinks the other still has feelings............Edit to add feelings not from my side

:laughing:

Typical Kiwi bloke, hiding or not having feelings with women.