winterslastbreath

good. i don't care what the "excuse" is for cheating. it will all be wrong and not acceptable and hardly forgivable.

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jibber

ya, thats why things are all screwed up with us. he keeps saying how we were perfect together, my response is "until you cheated" and the conversation goes in circles from there.

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jibber

well, seeing as how us girls have given alot of input on here, how bout we turn it over to the guys. what do guys typically look for in a girl?

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What you've done becomes the judge of what you're going to do -- especially in other people's minds. When you're traveling, you are what you are right there and then. People don't have your past to hold against you. No yesterdays on the road.
William Least Heat Moon, Blue Highways

Your toughest competitor lives in your head. Some days his name is fear, or pain, or gravity. Stomp his ass.

HOOKED ON THE WHITE POWDER

winterslastbreath

nice idea.

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Thrice

Faithful

Hot

Smart

Funny

Nice

Outgoing

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DJ_Jester

Well I guess I'll respond since you girls were so kind...

I'm into the girl that has a strong mind. She's smart and can carry on a conversation even debate with me. Yeah, so we'll argue but that's good sometimes I think. I really like a girl who won't back down in a good argument.

I can't stand a girl who is just a "whatever" girl. Just going with the flow and never creating a presence for herself. Like at a party... is she gonna cling to me all night or can she stand on her own?

I'm into the girl who's motivated. She has interests and goals and pursues them and is determined to do stuff on her own... but still is willing to take help if needed.

I want a girl who will participate. I don't like that idea of a trophy woman who stands on the sidelines while I do something. I want to be able to share activities with her. You don't have to be athletic but playing a game of horse is cool for me. You don't have to be knowledgable about some project I'm into but give ideas anyway just for the sake of participating in my life. I dance at clubs and stuff... I don't care if you go out there and do the Eileen! Just come out on the floor and hang out with me!

She definitely has to have a sense of humor. I'm a cornball and I'd rather get laughing "oh gawd's" than rolling eyes.

She has to have confidence in herself. Although I feel needed when I get in that nurturing mode, I HATE when it becomes my sole function in a relationship to comfort and boost an ego. In a relationship I'm defintely overly nice and serve my girl to a fault but c'mon... do something on your own damnit! You can do 'this' and yes yes yes you look great. If I wasn't attracted to you, would I still be with you? If I was into that other chick wouldn't I have dumped you already? And if I was really THAT type of guy, wouldn't I already be at the bar with that hot blonde instead of sitting here defending myself to you? "You rock, you're hot, you can do it, you're not stupid, that girl is ugly, no I'm not drunk." Man I really should make flash cards sometimes with those and just hand her one when she makes that face... oh you know that face! Don't act stupid. :-P

All right... so that turned into what I don't look for in a girl... but you get the idea.

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winterslastbreath

well put. expect for me change all the "chicks" to guys and "guy" to chick

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Eltiraaz

What do I like look for in a girl.. well I dont want to apppear shallow but I do like looks. I mean when it boils down to it, who doesnt? However, If I had the choice of smokin hot babe whos a bitch and a so~so girl whos got an awesome personality I would take the so~so girl.

I like smart obviously I hate trying to talk to girls that only understand make-up and guys.. They need to be pretty intelligent, also have some interests that I share although not too many, because its like someone said earlier, it makes for easier, and better conversation when you have opposing viewpoints. I also need a girl whos just a little crazy, like wild.. i dunno because when im in that crazy lets party im a horny animal mindset.. she better be too haha.

now purely speaking of physical feature.. sorry cant help it .... a nice stomach turns me right on about a girl, face is important too as well as hair, but like i said im not totally superficial...... *heehee*

I just like girls!

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MobilizeTerror

Are you sure that was from the tongue ring and not the guy you were kissing?

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winterslastbreath

same things my friends said too. i didn't have the heart to tell him that either he needs to clean his tongue ring, or he needs to clean himself.

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