i need some advice.
 

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Hmmm... I'm not really sure what you could do to fix the situation. Probably the best thing you could do would be to tell him exactly how you feel. If he doesn't respond after that and change his ways then maybe you will have to find another boyfriend.

ehh.. thanks.. i doubt i'd find another boyfriend though just like. lol

Have faith. :) But yeah... guys can sometimes get too attached and it's scary.

OK...This guy is just very insecure. He is afraid to lose you. By saying 'oh you dont wanna see me' he is just reassuring himself...are you his first g/f??

yea it is scary.. it's frustrating.. thanks.

break up with him and move to canada and go out with me *wiggles pelvis

:laughing:

im like, a sex symbol and a half

sex god. lol

i'd just talk it out with him, but the thing is, you have to ask yourself how much of a problem it is for you. i've been with guys that were really insecure, and didn't trust me, although i never gave them any reason not to. peronally, i have no patience with that, relationships have to be built on trust, and i can't deal with constantly feeling like i have to reassure someone about why i'm going out with them. just talk it over with him, he might not even realize how much he does it. hopefully it works out

Yo man, back off! I saw her first! :pimp:

Hope it works out.

he doesn't realize he does it until after he does it. it's like he doesn't even think about what's going to come out of his mouth. typical guy right? ;)
but i agree... i hate reassuring myself.. it's exactly how you said it-i give him no reason to not trust me. that just gets me 10x more frustrated.
i guess you could call it a problem, but it's not like it happens every day or anything. just sometimes it gets really bad and i feel like ripping my hair out. lol
thanks though, talking will probably help a bit.

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You forgot trust.

ha ha...

i meant

relationships are built upon trust

:laughing: trust maybe?????

the part that even frustrates me more is that i trust him with my heart.. i could trust him with everything. then he questions me when i hang with one of my guy friends. teenage love, sometimes i ask what the use.

Thanks for all the advice coming my way Nikki ;)

BTW...Awesome Signature I love that by Brand New!!

Yeah, I came to the same question myself and I decided that unless it's serious (and I mean really serious) love then it's not worth it at that young of an age. I'll be turning 20 in less than a month and I've only had one serious girlfriend.

Yeah... I've had one serious girlfriend at the young age of 17...it went bad...real bad. So im with you rocka...

yea well i'm just about 16 and i really do feel that i love the guy. and that's why i'm willing to put my all into it. i can't help but just stop and ask why sometimes. of course when i'm frustrated and all that. so, i guess it's just the effort to put into the relationship. although if it's not going to work, i won't force it.

heh, that makes two of us. after that, i'm thinkin that serious relationships are just too much, i dont want the kind of crap that comes up when things go wrong again for a while. but i'm not bitter, really i'm not.....

it's okay, we all have some bitterness in us. :p:



you're welcome Nick!! (i didn't even see your post!!!) haha.

ya, i dunno, i cant seem to get relationships right. the only serious relationship ended bad, very very bad. so i decided to just have fun in relationships, except now i just seem to end up with all the ******* guys, its a very messed up system.

isnt it ironic...dontcha think?

wait, you do know i'm a girl right? :)

yeah... i was quoting it for myself....ima guy i changed it to girl so it didnt say i was G_A_Y

woops my bad, i went stupid for a moment. but ya it is. you always hear the girld comlaining about how there are no nice guys out there, and then the guys complain that the nice guy never gets a girl. you'd think that it would work out more often, but nooooo

I know... i think im gunna put sign up around my school "Looking for NICE girl" 458-9607 then my picture

hopeless romantic girls never end up with the guy who never gets the girl. it's like an unwritten rule or something. or maybe becuz it's never happened to me damnit. hah.

ya i agree. the worst is guys who change halfway through the relationship. i know that they say hindsight is 20/20, but seriously, sometimes its just impossible to see it coming.

i think its an unwritten rule. Just like how when your single no girls like you, but as soon as you get a girl... they flock to you... guys know what im talking about...ny friend said girls want what they cant have and thats why they do it! I dont get it.

gah. change can be good sometimes but not in a relationship halfway through and the guy either turns psycho weird or pure ass.

ya you have a point. another thing: lately with the guys i've been dating, no matter how crazy i am about them in the beginning, i always lose interest within like 3 weeks or so, i keep telling myself "ok, this will be different, i'll be able to stay in this for more than a month" then a month later, "meh...."

oh no i definately know what you mean. it's happened almost everytime i started going out with sometime, and i'm just like.. do the guys like to do it on purpose or something?! just to make things complicated.

maybe you're just not a person to be attached yet to someone for a long period of time. or or.. maybe you like a variety ;) haha

ha ha its the worse...i usually like the girls that flock too!!

pure ass would be a very good description :) plus ****y and self centered, oh and guys (and girls too i guess), heres a tip, never spend an hour on the phone with your gf/bf insulting her/his best friend, no matter how much you may hate them, it just isn't something you do.

ha ha i'll remember that.