i'd just talk it out with him, but the thing is, you have to ask yourself how much of a problem it is for you. i've been with guys that were really insecure, and didn't trust me, although i never gave them any reason not to. peronally, i have no patience with that, relationships have to be built on trust, and i can't deal with constantly feeling like i have to reassure someone about why i'm going out with them. just talk it over with him, he might not even realize how much he does it. hopefully it works out

Yo man, back off! I saw her first! :pimp:

Hope it works out.

he doesn't realize he does it until after he does it. it's like he doesn't even think about what's going to come out of his mouth. typical guy right? ;)
but i agree... i hate reassuring myself.. it's exactly how you said it-i give him no reason to not trust me. that just gets me 10x more frustrated.
i guess you could call it a problem, but it's not like it happens every day or anything. just sometimes it gets really bad and i feel like ripping my hair out. lol
thanks though, talking will probably help a bit.

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You forgot trust.

ha ha...

i meant

relationships are built upon trust

:laughing: trust maybe?????

the part that even frustrates me more is that i trust him with my heart.. i could trust him with everything. then he questions me when i hang with one of my guy friends. teenage love, sometimes i ask what the use.

Thanks for all the advice coming my way Nikki ;)

BTW...Awesome Signature I love that by Brand New!!

Yeah, I came to the same question myself and I decided that unless it's serious (and I mean really serious) love then it's not worth it at that young of an age. I'll be turning 20 in less than a month and I've only had one serious girlfriend.