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ladyislingering 03-22-2015 07:10 PM

How do you do?
 
As a naturally soft-spoken individual, I'm always perplexed by people that are naturally so boisterous and loud that they're able to steal any spotlight this social world has to offer.

Where do you stand?

Frownland 03-22-2015 07:12 PM

I'm soft spoken with a sharp tongue.

ladyislingering 03-22-2015 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1568228)
I'm soft spoken with a sharp tongue.

same, but I'm gentle with those I legitimately care for

Black Francis 03-22-2015 07:26 PM

"You never know just how you look through other people's eyes"

I blame alot sh*t i say on being High or foreign but honestly, i know better most of the time.
i function more by my moods, some days i feel obnoxiously optimistic other days im a cynical bastard.

i don't really crave any spotlight but neither do i like being ignored so im somewhat in the middle of those 2.

apparently to Carpe im not mean enough or quiet enough cause she basically thinks im a talkative suck up (as im sure you other cool kids do) but i honestly don't know how to be different so you folks are just gonna have to deal with it.

EPOCH6 03-22-2015 07:28 PM

Usually pretty loud and unfiltered when I'm with friends. Quite soft spoken and weary of word choice when I'm in a professional environment or meeting new folks.

RoxyRollah 03-22-2015 07:33 PM

I have a commanding voice.Always have.Two volumes loud,and louder.
As far as being the boystorus one that has the spotlight no.Im very quiet until I know the person.
At parties Im a wall flower.Until inevitably the drunk loud crying chick needs to be escorted out and spoken with. Then Im a valued commodity, therapist,and bouncer.All it takes from me to remove said chick,is a stare and two words..."Get up."

Chula Vista 03-22-2015 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah (Post 1568254)
"Get up."

Flashback. Shakes are back too.

RoxyRollah 03-22-2015 07:41 PM

It can go two ways if you keep sitting there...

Black Francis 03-22-2015 07:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RoxyRollah (Post 1568254)
I have a commanding voice.Always have.Two volumes loud,and louder.
As far as being the boystorus one that has the spotlight no.Im very quiet until I know the person.
At parties Im a wall flower.Until inevitably the drunk loud crying chick needs to be escorted out and spoken with. Then Im a valued commodity, therapist,and bouncer.All it takes from me to remove said chick,is a stare and two words..."Get up."

i think deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep down.. you're a nice person.

RoxyRollah 03-22-2015 07:46 PM

Dude, Im very nice.I just look mean,I use it to my advantage.
See once drunk chick gets out side Roxy lights a smoke and it goes like this..
"So,you gone tell me whats wrong?"

And i listen,advise hug wipe tears,and they dunno even know they were ejected from a party.

DwnWthVwls 03-22-2015 08:03 PM

Soft spoken.

Pet_Sounds 03-22-2015 08:04 PM

I'm very soft-spoken and quiet.

RoxyRollah 03-22-2015 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls (Post 1568282)
Soft spoken.

But your footsteps shake nations.

DwnWthVwls 03-22-2015 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah (Post 1568290)
But your footsteps shake nations.

Some say I'm a walking sybian.

RoxyRollah 03-22-2015 08:11 PM

Get.up.

Frownland 03-22-2015 08:12 PM

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Originally Posted by WhateverDude (Post 1568293)
bishesdunevenknow

whos drunk as ****?
wd is drunk as ****.
ahhhhhhh.
The world is right again.

So the first option on the poll, then.

I think my soft spokedness is helpful during shows where I'm playing really loud because it catches the audience by surprise.

ladyislingering 03-22-2015 08:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Pet_Sounds (Post 1568286)
I'm very soft-spoken and quiet.

Like mother, like son.

ladyislingering 03-22-2015 08:12 PM

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Originally Posted by WhateverDude (Post 1568293)
bishesdunevenknow

whos drunk as ****?
wd is drunk as ****.
ahhhhhhh.
The world is right again.

dude I've been drunk since noon

I have never been happier in my whole goddamn life

RoxyRollah 03-22-2015 08:13 PM

tell us that in the morning.

Pet_Sounds 03-22-2015 08:15 PM

I actually feel a stronger connection with people when I'm not talking to them, if that makes sense. I'd like to think I'm good at communicating without words.

ladyislingering 03-22-2015 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Pet_Sounds (Post 1568308)
I actually feel a stronger connection with people when I'm not talking to them, if that makes sense. I'd like to think I'm good at communicating without words.

Body language is a very real thing. I have studied humans most of my life and have recognized select few, that I'm very sure have used being loud/obnoxious/silly to be a defense mechanism.

ladyislingering 03-22-2015 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah (Post 1568305)
tell us that in the morning.

I'm a pro at avoiding hangovers. Hydration is key.

i really wish i could get clean sometimes though

RoxyRollah 03-22-2015 08:19 PM

Like off booze or dope?

ladyislingering 03-22-2015 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah (Post 1568316)
Like off booze or dope?

both, really, I just wish I knew what kind of person I really am, sober, clean.

I know someone who's gone totally clean from everything that ever interrupted his life and he's just... oh beyond delightful.... but I wonder if I'm like that, if something within me is so much better than the alcoholic or the drug addict or whatever, I mean just... wow, y'know...

DwnWthVwls 03-22-2015 08:26 PM

You have to get over the being a miserable wreck before you turn into the beyond delightful.

Black Francis 03-22-2015 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering (Post 1568314)
I'm a pro at avoiding hangovers. Hydration is key.

i really wish i could get clean sometimes though

Spoken like a pro, but you gotta sip it and regulate it properly, there's a whole science it behind it..

ladyislingering 03-22-2015 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls (Post 1568333)
You have to get over the being a miserable wreck before you turn into the beyond delightful.

as far as I know, the person I mentioned is quite self-deprecating as a natural thing but seems to be the favorite of so many people, it just makes me sick, how is that even possible, to be so lovely, so beautiful, yet so dangerous, so sick to the touch

ladyislingering 03-22-2015 08:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Black Francis (Post 1568336)
Spoken like a pro, but you gotta sip it and regulate it properly, there's a whole science it behind it..

i have not been so careful today, I assume I will be miserable once the downtime strikes

The Batlord 03-22-2015 08:40 PM

I am a quiet, reserved little China doll. Tee hee hee.

ladyislingering 03-22-2015 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1568351)
I am a quiet, reserved little China doll. Tee hee hee.


if I had a dick I'd shove it so violently into your mouth that you'd question your swallowing ability.

The Batlord 03-22-2015 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering (Post 1568372)
if I had a dick I'd shove it so violently into your mouth that you'd question your swallowing ability.

I like this plan. Let's talk about it some more.

Ninetales 03-23-2015 12:36 AM

ive had this convo with people before. I would consider myself shy, but I know people that know me don't. I think it depends on the situation but if im around a bunch of louder people I generally wont try and compete with that, if im around a bunch of quiet shy people ill take it upon myself to speak up. I do like meeting new people and public speaking generally.

so I guess in the middle idk :\

Frownland 03-23-2015 12:54 AM

If I'm drunk I might pronunciate things a little more loudly.

WWWP 03-23-2015 01:13 AM

I'm definitely not loud but I'm definitely not quiet. I don't typically initiate conversations with people I don't know, but once the ball's rolling I can connect with pretty much anyone if my crippling self-doubt doesn't interfere.

Janszoon 03-23-2015 05:14 AM

I'm loud in some situations and quiet in others.

RoxyRollah 03-23-2015 05:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Janszoon (Post 1568464)
I'm loud in some situations and quiet in others.

Lou d like when?

ladyislingering 03-23-2015 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1568448)
If I'm drunk I might pronunciate things a little more loudly.

Me too. It's the only time I can successfully talk over loudass people without getting Kanye'd.

Janszoon 03-24-2015 05:07 AM

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah (Post 1568465)
Lou d like when?

Loud like when I'm hanging out with friends having a good time.

RoxyRollah 03-24-2015 06:03 AM

you seem like youd have a booming voice. Like not loud but deep tone.

Black Francis 03-24-2015 06:08 AM

I think you mean a Jeep tone.


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