Help me with boundries.
 

As a soon to be 55 year old dude is it OK for me to comment on the pictures that the ladies here, all of whom are decades younger than me, post?

I started out doing it but now am apprehensive.

(WWWF posted a killer shot that I wanted to comment on but I didn't)

Wolverinewolfweiselfigeon?

Was gonna say "Beautiful eyes".

The ladies would be the ones to say definitively, but I would tend to think that as long as it's only compliments you're offering, there should be no problem. Even stuff like "nice rack!" will usually be ok, as long as the woman in question knows you're just complimenting and not perving on her (like me!)

You know what women are, with regards to compliments, according to Homer: "Greedy, ravenous monsters always wanting more, more, MORE!!!" :D

Seriously though, I doubt any woman (or man) here would take offence to being called pretty, sexy, fine, whatever. We're not that PC!

I get why you're apprehensive. I don't comment on them (ok, rarely) and I'm mid 20's.

But go for it man. I have ticked the top option.

I gave WWWP a :love: emoticon. I imagine it's creepier coming from a 14-year-old than a 55-year-old.

You can comment on things without being creepy. "You have nice eyes", tada. Never really thought about since most of the people are around my age, and I kind of established myself with the members who I posted about before I said anything. I don't think generalizing is the right approach. You should base your commentary around the relationship you have with the member in question and use your best judgement to decide what is and isn't appropriate. If other members get pissy over your comments that have nothing to do with them I wouldn't sweat it, it's really not up to them.

Admittedly, I did make a couple mistakes early on thinking I could get away with certain comments just because of this particular forum environment. You've been here long enough to have a good idea about what will and won't set people off.

As long as she's grown you gotta be really uptight to be worried about it. Being attracted to 20 year old women isn't any more shameful than enjoying a good meal or a warm spring day or whatever. It's just normal.

Only my opinion, but I definitely find most people's attitudes towards women here creepy as ****. Age isn't even relevant, It's the way you go about it.
But I know whenever Trollheart makes a comment, or on the other end of the spectrum Vanilla seeks gratification, I just get grossed out.
That's the internet though.

James you are sexy as hell. ;);) You know just how to tease us with those turtle necks.

Take it to PMs bby xoxo

You do know she and I are married, don't you? ;)

Eww.

if it makes you feel any better i'm perfectly fine with you hitting on young women online

I have to say, I have never had a member cross the line and saysomething so deviant and lewd I got offended, or creeped out, like legitimately creeped out.Now politics, well you offensive assgoblins have dat **** on lock down.But I think everybody on here likes to be oggled.It's nice to be wanted, but to be wanted by ppl with simliar intrests and likes, well that's down right intoxicating, and ego boosting.If you say otherwise you are lying to me but most importantly to yourself.I would venture to say you are straight unless someone has something to say about being complimented.And if and when that post shows up point me in their direction so we can disscuss taking a compliment and how its poor manners to do otherwise. ..;)

Republicans are ugly :D They need to cover dat sh*t up in public. Anarchists on the other hand, should always be nude cause they're all hot.

anarchy is dumb as **** to me. i actually respect republicans more than anarchists.

You sexy bitch!Assume the position!

I'm trying to poke Roxy and you get all serious to cut in line, what a douche. And OF COURSE she takes the bait.

Actually he ninja posted.I hadnt edited it.Im out and on my phone.

Sweet!

:love: :beer: :bowdown:, in no particular order.

it just seems like if roxy takes **** for being republican then you should definitely be attacked for being an anarchist

I have a somewhat abstract view of anarchy and I'm not one.

**** it, I'm complimenting WWWF's eyes officially.

Those who voted "Shame on You", care to step forward?

Well, I avoid saying much and I'm 37 but that's just me.

I voted that but more jokey than anything. It seems the stand in for my general views, but 'shame on you' is clearly too strong. Nothing shameful here.

oh well. guess i jumped the gun. i dunno what it is but i get so many people on that anarchy **** that if i hear the word i immediately go into westside mode and say **** anarchy

Cheers mate.

What do you gain from posting a comment though? Like, you have a wife.
Not having a dig at you, just curious.

Stand mortal, you are making a scene.

ya I basically share James' view. but then again flirting online or even text in general has always seemed so weird to me. like I can rarely enjoy sexting. its all just so.. cringey to read as a bystander. but I guess the point of that thread is to talk about how good people look so wtf do I know (nothing that's what)

I'm not trying to bang her for f*cks sake.

This is a community. I want to feel a part of it. If folks respond to the music I post positively it makes me feel good. If I post a pic and someone says something nice I feel good.

WWWF posted a very sweet pic. Why shouldn't I respond in kind?

I'm the exact same man, can't do that **** with a straight face.

James,sweetheart I like you.Im just saying this because Im going to challenge your thinking.Don'tbe offened.

Maybe its not for him, could be cause he likes to flattr.
Also though, flirting outside your marraige is natural. I said flirting not cheating guys chill.
I lets him know hes still got it ,it lets her know shes hot.Victimless crime.It can be very erotic in a relationship to know your lover is coveted.It makes you appreciate your spouse.

I don't believe all the dudes on here that leave comments are just doing it to make people feel nice. Not in a million years.
In reality I think it's something to do with power or status. Though I could be wrong. Maybe guys just want to know that in one way or another they ended up in a hot girl's thoughts. Sexual attraction is all about attention really.

And you have a vow of celibacy going because. .....

I can't speak for everyone but I do it just because. The pics are there to comment on, I don't see a difference between telling the men they have a cool shirt or picture versus telling women something I physically like about them in a pic. If I was attracted to men I'd comment on their physical appeal also. I've also commented on the pictures of the ladies that had nothing to do with them.

What?

Ya, because as a 54 year old male who, because of medical issues, can't get a hard on without the help of a pill, I hope to reach out via an innocent comment on a community board, in an effort to have a romp with a woman I've never met, and who lives thousands of miles away.

Sounds like a plan.

Dude be quiet. You're blowing my cover minus the dick thing. :shycouch: