I can relate to this so much. I have grown to resent my oldest friend because of the way he uses his penis. He cheats on his girlfriend, even with close friends of ours, and genuinely just messes with people's emotions. Including mine, he's slept with a girl I've been involved with so many times that it doesn't even hurt anymore. I can't bring myself to end the friendship though, because he's my brother and I love him. I imagine it'd be the same for you. Friendships are hard to break.

is his girlfriend hot?

So, let me see if I get this straight. Guy has girlfriend for a long time, girlfriend finds phone messages to chicks that work in a message parlor or whatever. Right? Am I right?

See this is where I am about to ostracize myself from the fold. I don't personally see anything wrong about paying for sex. Hey man, I don't judge people and what they do, and I am not saying that you do brother. So please don't take my statement to mean that. I am saying we all do it for free why are we so much better then the women or men that charge for their uhm services? Seriously, believe it or not we all pay for sex it might not be a cash exchange but we pay for it in one form or another, be it with diamonds, or just someone that will listen to your bull**** at 3:00 am on a Tuesday after you have eaten a tub of Ben and Jerry's all by your lonesome. (cough* I have never uhm done that then called someone I slept with feeling remorseful nooo...)

Nothing wrong with it, and as far as I'm concerned a closed relationship that still allowed for casual sex with others might just be the next step in romantic relationship evolution (and hookers would be a much more emotionally safe alternative to someone who you might develop actual romantic feelings for), but if your relationship is based on a mutually understood agreement based on a "traditional", sexually exclusive model, then you're an ******* for breaking your partner's trust, hookers or not.

^ You owe me 75$ .

I thought you said the first time was free. Sort of like a heroin thing.

and a pie.

The difference is that he hasn't done anything to me personally and I don't think he will. I just lost a lot of respect for him as a person. I'm not really at the point where I'm going to make a decision if that is enough to break our friendship, but it's making me think about his character which is never a good thing.

Yes. I've known her forever though. She'll always be just a friend. If...that's what you were implying that is.

Nope. The messages were to other random ass girls. The handjob vixens are a separate problem.

I don't have a problem with him getting his turky jerky. The problem I have is that he brought his girlfriend across the country for this. The pay per view pants party was either happening before she moved out there with him, which is pretty scummy, or they happened after she moved out there which I find to be a rash decision.

He claims they lost a spark and that's why he's seeking a thumb wrestling partner for his dude junk. My whole opinion was that she made a HUGE upheaval of her life for him and I feel the least he could do is try to work things out a little more than three weeks before he decided to go buy some happy hoo ha massages. His whole attitude of "I'll do what I want" is also troubling because it shows how immature he is, which I tie to the constant weed smoking.

Also, I hope you all enjoyed my wordplay on handjobs.