No, if they don't like what I got to offer, they can go look for something else. :)

Yeah. Don't listen to me. Take the great sagely advice of butthead MB's Dr. Phil.:rolleyes:

Your assessment was spot on DJ. Dr Phil would have been proud.

Is it accurate to say that ppl who aren't willing to compromise will probably be single forever?

if not single, never have a long term relationship?

I personally can't be with a person that is not willing to compromise anything, that person is gonna run the relationship cause they don't f*ckin budge, how can a lover do that?

I don't think a person can love if he doesn't compromise somethings, it seems like loving himself more than loving the other person.

The only way i could ever see it working is if they find a person with his exact set of values and even then neither of them budge so if a problem rises, how will they stay together?

I'm more springer or povich than dr phil. Learnin to compromise is prob one of the most important things in a relationship lol

Yeah it would be hard to be in a relationship with somebody who refuses to compromise on some things or if you yourself refuse to compromise. There are some things that cannot be compromised on, though. Like children. I want children so if I was with a guy who didn't want them, I would dump him because we would be wasting each other's time. You can't have half a kid, lol.

I dunno if I'd say they'll always be single or will never have long term relationships, but I'd say they'll have a lot of difficulty in their relationships. People like that have a tendency to drive others away.

This exactly. I've never asked or expected anyone to change for me either. The farthest I've taken it is "don't take too many shots tonight so we can have sex later."

I absolutely agree with this. In the past I have tried to change things for a guy but in the past few years I have realised that it's not worth it. It can be too one sided. So basically, a guy has to accept me for who I am and to figure out whether I'm the person he wants. I'm not one of these people that have to always be in relationships so I don't really mind being picky. I think that there are men out there that want to control you. If you let them do it you mind up being in a horrible situation later on. :jailed:

The thing is, especially in long term relationships... people tend to change on their own over the years anyways. Might as well make it look like their idea and earn some brownie points haha.

For instance, I no longer drink every day because my bf asked me to cut down. And I gotta say even though I bitched up a storm because I was an alcoholic when we met, I'm thankful, and he thinks I made some huge sacrifice.