:rofl:

That part cracked me up.

No.

I'm reckless, self destructive, and I drink too much. I also love too much. Take it or leave it.

Butthead kind of got it. Only little things and only if it was reciprocated.

No, I would not change. Would attempt to understand/accommodate for the other and if I could I would. That's not a change.

I'd try to change as many of my flaws as possible. If it's someone you care about, you want them to feel good around you, right? Right.
But if the relationship pushes you to be something you're not, I suggest you drop it right there. It's not healthy. Better to be alone in an empty place than to be in a minefield.

If you end up comprising, those little things that you changed will always become an issue later on with fights. You will end up resenting the person and using it as leverage in those arguments. Not worth it.

For those lookin for relationship advice here on mb please take djs advice then forget about it abd do the complete opposite

I think Andrew WK has an excellent grasp on this subject, although the premise is a bit off topic, the message is clear:

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no, I'm perfect

Small changes, for sure. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and yeah, we have each made some small changes in our habits or behaviours in order to get along better with each other. It's also important to know when to let things go and not to nitpick constantly or be demanding and nag all the time. That's annoying and doesn't accomplish anything.

I'm not going to expect him to give up on his dreams and life goals, just because they may not suit ME. I probably wouldn't even want to be in a long relationship with somebody who was heading in a completely different direction in life, though.

As for friendships, I make friends with people who have similar interests and hobbies, and I just avoid the people who don't fit my kind of lifestyle.