I kissed loads of girls tonight and im still not happy

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 02-02-2014, 06:06 AM

in all seriousness lets not slut shame its really oppressive. 1/4 ppl commit suicide cause of slut shamin bully tactics so check my tumblr page for more made up stats if ya dont believe me

Burning Down · 02-02-2014, 07:24 AM

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Originally Posted by butthead aka 216

in all seriousness lets not slut shame its really oppressive. 1/4 ppl commit suicide cause of slut shamin bully tactics so check my tumblr page for more made up stats if ya dont believe me

Who is slut shaming here?

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 02-02-2014, 07:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Burning Down

Who is slut shaming here?

nobody yet. just a matter of time before the patriarchy slut shames tho so lets all just play it safe.

Mojo · 02-02-2014, 07:54 AM

I don't know the OP or anything about them. But under the presumption that they are maybe somewhat struggling with depression, I don't see why it's difficult for others to wrap their head around why kissing a lot of people is not such a great thing, or why it would maybe even make one feel worse.

Meaningless encounters with perfect strangers can be fine, if you are comfortable with that just the way it is. Not if you are looking or longing for something with meaning though. And if that is the case then getting laid really wouldn't help matters at all.

Anyway, as I said, I don't know the OP. I'm probably way off the mark. But if that is the case, it's not a such a strange way to feel.

RoxyRollah · 02-02-2014, 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Mojo

I don't know the OP or anything about them. But under the presumption that they are maybe somewhat struggling with depression, I don't see why it's difficult for others to wrap their head around why kissing a lot of people is not such a great thing, or why it would maybe even make one feel worse.

Meaningless encounters with perfect strangers can be fine, if you are comfortable with that just the way it is. Not if you are looking or longing for something with meaning though. And if that is the case then getting laid really wouldn't help matters at all.

Anyway, as I said, I don't know the OP. I'm probably way off the mark. But if that is the case, it's not a such a strange way to feel.

Dude, I understand why kissing alot of people isn't a good thing for some people... Myself included, it's kinda like being depressed and eating a slice of cake, and then another, and then another, then you try and hang yourself from the blinds because you are ashamed of what you did...
( Don't judge me..)

He can look at it from the glass is half full perspective and maybe it will get him out of the funk... He can't change what when down on the lips of 100 English women but he can at least spin in his favor for later use... :P

In all seriousness though, I totally do understand his frustrations...

djchameleon · 02-02-2014, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah

it's kinda like being depressed and eating a slice of cake, and then another, and then another, then you try and hang yourself from the blinds because you are ashamed of what you did...

Mojo · 02-02-2014, 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah

Dude, I understand why kissing alot of people isn't a good thing for some people... Myself included, it's kinda like being depressed and eating a slice of cake, and then another, and then another, then you try and hang yourself from the blinds because you are ashamed of what you did...
( Don't judge me..)

He can look at it from the glass is half full perspective and maybe it will get him out of the funk... He can't change what when down on the lips of 100 English women but he can at least spin in his favor for later use... :P

In all seriousness though, I totally do understand his frustrations...

But if they are depressed then that isn't necessarily possible. Changing your perspective or point of view isn't necessarily so easy, or potentially not enough.

Anyway, I'm just saying I'd understand if that is the case. I'm not surprised it wouldn't help.

RoxyRollah · 02-02-2014, 10:24 AM

True it isn't easy to do that... It comes naturally on it's own time if it comes at all

djchameleon · 02-02-2014, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Mojo

I don't know the OP or anything about them. But under the presumption that they are maybe somewhat struggling with depression, I don't see why it's difficult for others to wrap their head around why kissing a lot of people is not such a great thing, or why it would maybe even make one feel worse.

Meaningless encounters with perfect strangers can be fine, if you are comfortable with that just the way it is. Not if you are looking or longing for something with meaning though. And if that is the case then getting laid really wouldn't help matters at all.

Anyway, as I said, I don't know the OP. I'm probably way off the mark. But if that is the case, it's not a such a strange way to feel.

Even though you don't feel it emotionally, getting laid will help because it releases endorphins

RoxyRollah · 02-02-2014, 11:20 AM

Not everyone can compartmentalize like that though Dj. Not everyone can look at it strictly from a sexual point of view... Why do it if your heart isn't in it vs. you can do it put your back into it... Sex without love, love without sex, which is worse...?

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~~butthead aka 216~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: freely swimmin thru the waters of glory much like a majestic bald eagle soars thru the skies Posts: 1,463	in all seriousness lets not slut shame its really oppressive. 1/4 ppl commit suicide cause of slut shamin bully tactics so check my tumblr page for more made up stats if ya dont believe me