How to have lengthy conversations with a girl?

~~Blanche_Minim~~ · 01-15-2014, 05:13 PM

I know this thread has nothing to do with music, but I am studying music in college, and I have a new classmate in school. She is a vocalist singing mezzo alto. Her name is Jessica and she was once in university studying Fine Arts: Visual Arts and she dropped it because the history part is too difficult for her. I'm also going soon to university. Then she moved to my college because her real passion is in music. Later on she will study again in university taking Psychology. She has a sweet tooth. She likes M&Ms and Skittles, but she also has a salty tooth. She likes coffee and green tea. Her father is Italian and her mother is Mexican. I'm just writing this down because I already talked to her. Overall, she is a beautiful babe. I plan to take her out on dinner next week using the money I have on pay day. The only problem is that I don't have a lot of ideas for conversation. How do you have lengthy conversations with a girl? I know some guys can talk random stuff to girls for hours. I want to learn. I am listening to Metallica's Kill Em' All while typing this. So rock on!

zombie kid · 01-15-2014, 06:07 PM

Is this a relationship advice website now? Just keep asking her questions about her and let her ask questions about you, I guess. People love to talk about themselves.

Urban Hat€monger ? · 01-15-2014, 06:09 PM

2 pieces of advice.

1. Girls like nothing more than hearing the sound of their own name.
2. Let her talk, just nod & agree, she's think you're sensitive and a good listener.

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 01-15-2014, 06:44 PM

Just keep askin follow up questions and interrupt to be witty from time to time

Moss · 01-15-2014, 07:53 PM

Spend the whole time discussing whether the Beatles or the Beach Boys are better.

TheBig3 · 01-15-2014, 07:57 PM

Why wouldn't you talk to her like anyone else?

DriveYourCarDownToTheSea · 01-15-2014, 08:07 PM

Does she play an instrument? Do you? If so, ask her if she'd like to "jam" sometime.

Woman I dated the most in my younger days was a flute player (and a very good one, too). I played guitar. We met in college and a related internship, but we became friends when we started playing instruments together. Best one was "Scarborough Fair," sounds really nice with a flute accompanying a guitar.

Paul Smeenus · 01-15-2014, 08:11 PM

Four words to live by: Can't win, don't try

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 01-15-2014, 08:13 PM

Talk about religion politics abortion etc

Engine · 01-15-2014, 08:14 PM

Nothing is certain but if you want to learn how to talk to girls, one thing you should definitely do is join a nerdy internet forum and get advice from its members. Blast some Metallica for extra inspiration.

01-15-2014, 05:13 PM	#1 (permalink)
~~Blanche_Minim~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Aug 2013 Posts: 128	How to have lengthy conversations with a girl? I know this thread has nothing to do with music, but I am studying music in college, and I have a new classmate in school. She is a vocalist singing mezzo alto. Her name is Jessica and she was once in university studying Fine Arts: Visual Arts and she dropped it because the history part is too difficult for her. I'm also going soon to university. Then she moved to my college because her real passion is in music. Later on she will study again in university taking Psychology. She has a sweet tooth. She likes M&Ms and Skittles, but she also has a salty tooth. She likes coffee and green tea. Her father is Italian and her mother is Mexican. I'm just writing this down because I already talked to her. Overall, she is a beautiful babe. I plan to take her out on dinner next week using the money I have on pay day. The only problem is that I don't have a lot of ideas for conversation. How do you have lengthy conversations with a girl? I know some guys can talk random stuff to girls for hours. I want to learn. I am listening to Metallica's Kill Em' All while typing this. So rock on! Last edited by Blanche_Minim; 01-15-2014 at 05:21 PM.

01-15-2014, 06:09 PM	#3 (permalink)
Urban Hat€monger ? The Sexual Intellectual Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Somewhere cooler than you Posts: 18,605	2 pieces of advice. 1. Girls like nothing more than hearing the sound of their own name. 2. Let her talk, just nod & agree, she's think you're sensitive and a good listener. __________________ Urb's RYM Stuff Most people sell their soul to the devil, but the devil sells his soul to Nick Cave.

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TheBig3 killedmyraindog Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Boston, Massachusetts Posts: 11,172	Why wouldn't you talk to her like anyone else? __________________ I've moved to a new address

01-15-2014, 08:07 PM	#7 (permalink)
DriveYourCarDownToTheSea AllTheWhileYouChargeAFee Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Kansas City Posts: 1,178	Does she play an instrument? Do you? If so, ask her if she'd like to "jam" sometime. Woman I dated the most in my younger days was a flute player (and a very good one, too). I played guitar. We met in college and a related internship, but we became friends when we started playing instruments together. Best one was "Scarborough Fair," sounds really nice with a flute accompanying a guitar. __________________ Stop and find a pretty shell for her Beach Boys vs Beatles comparisons begin here

01-15-2014, 08:14 PM	#10 (permalink)
Engine air quote Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: pollen & mold Posts: 3,108	Nothing is certain but if you want to learn how to talk to girls, one thing you should definitely do is join a nerdy internet forum and get advice from its members. Blast some Metallica for extra inspiration. __________________ Like an arrow, I was only passing through.

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zombie kid Music Addict Join Date: May 2013 Location: in a grave. Posts: 77	Is this a relationship advice website now? Just keep asking her questions about her and let her ask questions about you, I guess. People love to talk about themselves.

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~~butthead aka 216~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: freely swimmin thru the waters of glory much like a majestic bald eagle soars thru the skies Posts: 1,463	Just keep askin follow up questions and interrupt to be witty from time to time

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Moss Scuttle Buttin' Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Boulder Colorado Posts: 972	Spend the whole time discussing whether the Beatles or the Beach Boys are better.

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~~butthead aka 216~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: freely swimmin thru the waters of glory much like a majestic bald eagle soars thru the skies Posts: 1,463	Talk about religion politics abortion etc