Cuthbert

Think a lot of men would, ones my age anyway. A lot of lads I know think she is not 'wife' material if she does that.

I don't even think it's necessarily a conquest thing, just that some lads will not want to commit to anyone who met you one night and sucked you off in a field within three hours.

My own opinion: People can do what they want.

Scarlett O'Hara

Good point. When I was younger, I found that many guys didn't see me as 'wife' material. Even now people can't see me being a wife, I'm apparently the 'mistress'. The same goes for children, some say that I wouldn't suit having a kid. I think partially the problem is that I look really young (~18) and they can't believe it when I tell them I am 26. I was in the pharmacy yesterday and the lady there was shocked at my real age. I am known for being very career focused and honestly, I don't feel I'm ready for both motherhood or getting married. I'm going off topic here, but this is related to how you approach a guy. If you come off sexually charged into a few times of dating, the guy will enjoy it but not see you as a girlfriend material. Studies apparently show that men tend to go for women who look and behave similar to their mother. I don't know if that's true or not.

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djchameleon

Pfft, what a shit study!

I don't think men go for women that behave similar to their mother but some guys do tend to go for women that they think have more child bearing qualities and would make a good mother not necessarily their own mothers!

See this is why I said there are different definitions related to what the Friendzone is. People have their own interpretations of what it is.

It isn't simple cut and dry.

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RoxyRollah

really ? because honestly men will pick a woman with qaulities similar to their mother....

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Paul Smeenus

Maybe some do. Others most definitely do not.

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djchameleon

I love my mother and all but there is no way I would!

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TheBig3

I'm with DJ on this one - where are you getting that from?

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RoxyRollah

just an observation.... seriously...might be askew, but hell my old avatar suggested that I was drunk all the time so it could be through martini goggles that I see this.

I find that most of the men I have been out with have mentioned that something I do, or a statement I make ( slightly reminds them of their mother) not completely but just enough for it to be made mention of... so I based my conclusion on this, that indeed men gravitate towards women that remind them of their mother in some innate way...)

Now sonny, can you move outta the way Perry Mason is on....

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Dayvan Cowboy

in this day and age, people seem to forget the virtues of citations and **** like that. I love it when people say "YOU CAN'T TRUST WIKIPEDIA" but trust any article that says "scientists say....". At least wikipedia will force the writers to say which scientist at which institution.

that's just how i feel about citations and how you should remain skeptical of everything, even news articles. /endrant

TheBig3

So...we're agreeing here? I'm not sure what point you're coming to.

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