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Scarlett O'Hara 11-13-2013 08:48 PM

What Kind Of Person Regularly Posts/Lurks on Message Boards?
 
Describe what personality traits and life experiences that intrigues people into posting on forums. For example, are they loners? Are many of them struggling with mental and physical disabilities? Social contact online makes it way easier to make friends and not be judged for what you are in real life. Thoughts?

Mondo Bungle 11-13-2013 08:51 PM

I wanted to talk about music.

Paul Smeenus 11-13-2013 08:53 PM

What's this "real life" thing you're talking about?

butthead aka 216 11-13-2013 08:57 PM

Buff swole manly hung hilarious guys who love sports n music and hates feminists unless I'm thr only one?

gunnels 11-13-2013 09:32 PM

A long time ago I googled "music forum" and found this, was appalled by the snootiness I saw, and attempted to turn right back around. After a while I couldn't resist the trainwreck, snarky englishmen, and new music, and here I am. As for internal attributions you could make for that...perhaps musically adventurous pain-gluttons?
Also, to be fair the snootiness I perceived when I was thirteen did primarily stem from people making fun of Sum 41 so hey, you all aren't that bad.

Taxman 11-13-2013 10:37 PM

Well, I like to talk about music and none of the people I know in a real life are interested in music.
Also, I think, it's good that you have a place where you post your thoughts and all but you don't know the other people. It's easier to talk when you're anonymous. That means these lounge posts. Also I think I'm a little bit lonely.
Anyway, one reason why I post to MB is that I wanna develop my English and I thought that it's better to also actually use it, you know.
Also forums like MB are good when you want to get some recommendations

Scarlett O'Hara 11-13-2013 10:53 PM

I think you've all missed the point of the thread. I mean if you were to describe the most common personality traits on any message board, what would that be? Not Music Banter specific. Like how you would define a hipster, but a forum goer.

Paedantic Basterd 11-13-2013 10:58 PM

To be honest, I've known all kinds. I couldn't pigeonhole all the people I've known, nor would I want to. It's a disservice to them.

djchameleon 11-13-2013 11:54 PM

forum goers comes in all types especially because there are different forums to accommodate different interests so it doesn't make sense to group them all into one personality type.

Key 11-14-2013 12:46 AM

I go on message boards / forums for two reasons:

1) Because i'm bored and I need something to do other than gaming and Facebook.
2) Since I quite enjoy music, a music forum specifically seemed like a good idea. It would be the same if I were on a gaming forum, etc etc.

Taxman 11-14-2013 01:23 AM

Also there are several types of people who write on the forums, so they are not a homogeneous group. Some people only read these writings, some only talk about music, some like to talk seriously, some are trolling, some are more lounge-focused etc.

Plankton 11-14-2013 09:25 AM

It takes a bit of intelligence to comprehend the scope of a forum, and there are quite a few people I know personally that wouldn't be able to comprehend the concept. On the other side of the coin, I see a bit of loneliness in people who are forum goers. Possibly, seeing the interactions as a way of self assertion. So for what I've seen, people who frequent forums are lonely intellectuals mostly.

Sansa Stark 11-14-2013 09:28 AM

People on drugs.

Mr. Charlie 11-14-2013 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Plankton (Post 1384356)
On the other side of the coin, I see a bit of loneliness in people who are forum goers.

Stop watching me!

Key 11-14-2013 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Charlie (Post 1384390)
Stop watching me!

*moves away from window*

Mr. Charlie 11-14-2013 11:50 AM

Haha. And you.

Plankton 11-14-2013 11:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr. Charlie (Post 1384390)
Stop watching me!


Scarlett O'Hara 11-14-2013 04:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Plankton (Post 1384356)
It takes a bit of intelligence to comprehend the scope of a forum, and there are quite a few people I know personally that wouldn't be able to comprehend the concept. On the other side of the coin, I see a bit of loneliness in people who are forum goers. Possibly, seeing the interactions as a way of self assertion. So for what I've seen, people who frequent forums are lonely intellectuals mostly.

That's exactly what I was thinking. Obviously the trolls don't count.

Rjinn 11-14-2013 05:07 PM

It really depends on the forum and I can take a guess that members will lurk here because of all the music sharing. As a stalker myself well... I always imagine how your bedrooms would look like because the pictures in our head are strong while socializing on the internet. ;) I've been on forums for 10 years now. People put a lot more effort posting on forums. It creates a certain depth that makes it attractive. Liiterary, it's more educational.

You find a forum with subjects you like then relatively it's easier to become involved in some sort of community. It's a public arena, you'll get to know people you've never met or have been introduced to just from posting, and you get to talk about so many things. It's exciting in a way.

djchameleon 11-14-2013 05:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Plankton (Post 1384356)
It takes a bit of intelligence to comprehend the scope of a forum, and there are quite a few people I know personally that wouldn't be able to comprehend the concept. On the other side of the coin, I see a bit of loneliness in people who are forum goers. Possibly, seeing the interactions as a way of self assertion. So for what I've seen, people who frequent forums are lonely intellectuals mostly.

I don't necessarily agree with the lonely part though. It might be true for some people but not everyone that attends forums regularly. They have lives outside of the forums and some people only visit while at work or while at school to fill up boredom time. Some people only visit for an hour or so while at home then go on with their social lives. It definitely varies.

ladyislingering 11-14-2013 06:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Plankton (Post 1384356)
On the other side of the coin, I see a bit of loneliness in people who are forum goers. Possibly, seeing the interactions as a way of self assertion. So for what I've seen, people who frequent forums are lonely intellectuals mostly.

I often feel just as lonely online as I do around people in my life (apart from those closest to me, which are precious and few). Comes with the shy girl's territory, man.

Lord Larehip 11-14-2013 07:33 PM

You can't really have the discussions about music in person that you have here. They'd turn into fights or they'd stay on superficial levels. Here, you can get as deep into it as you want. Plus you're talking with people from different states and countries that you would otherwise never meet. If I want to make a point, I can do a search and find an article or something that supports my point and I can post it. Can't really do that IRL. Plus when you're discussing a band or a genre or something, you can go to Youtube or something and find clips to post. It's a whole new way of communicating.

If people who come online to discuss subjects are lonely or bored--so what? If you meet someone who is never alone and always out with friends and always too busy to post online, they are probably just trying to fill an intellectual void, afraid of being alone because they have no idea what to do with themselves.

Scarlett O'Hara 11-15-2013 01:06 AM

Interesting perspective Lord. :)

Taxman 11-15-2013 02:10 AM

I have always thought it's interesting to talk to people from other countries so I see your point Lord

The Batlord 11-15-2013 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla (Post 1384259)
Describe what personality traits and life experiences that intrigues people into posting on forums. For example, are they loners?

Yes.

Quote:

Are many of them struggling with mental and physical disabilities?
Yes.

Quote:

Social contact online makes it way easier to make friends and not be judged for what you are in real life. Thoughts?
Yes.

End thread.

Plankton 11-15-2013 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Lord Larehip (Post 1384556)
You can't really have the discussions about music in person that you have here. They'd turn into fights or they'd stay on superficial levels. Here, you can get as deep into it as you want. Plus you're talking with people from different states and countries that you would otherwise never meet. If I want to make a point, I can do a search and find an article or something that supports my point and I can post it. Can't really do that IRL. Plus when you're discussing a band or a genre or something, you can go to Youtube or something and find clips to post. It's a whole new way of communicating.

If people who come online to discuss subjects are lonely or bored--so what? If you meet someone who is never alone and always out with friends and always too busy to post online, they are probably just trying to fill an intellectual void, afraid of being alone because they have no idea what to do with themselves.

So what?

wtf, I was responding to the thread topic, not asking for your approval of my observation.

Lord Larehip 11-15-2013 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Plankton (Post 1384730)
So what?

wtf, I was responding to the thread topic, not asking for your approval of my observation.

So how about it, MB members?

Should I bother to respond to this mentally unbalanced individual? No? Alright then.

djchameleon 11-15-2013 08:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lord Larehip (Post 1384884)
So how about it, MB members?

Should I bother to respond to this mentally unbalanced individual? No? Alright then.

I think he quoted the wrong person. Maybe he meant to quote me.

All I said was that I disagreed with part of his opinion. I didn't go after him like he couldn't have said opinion.

Mr. Charlie 11-15-2013 09:03 PM

You're nowt but a feather rustler, Chameleon. :D

Plankton 11-16-2013 10:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lord Larehip (Post 1384884)
So how about it, MB members?

Should I bother to respond to this mentally unbalanced individual? No? Alright then.

Smart move.

Lord Larehip 11-16-2013 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon (Post 1384887)
I think he quoted the wrong person. Maybe he meant to quote me.

All I said was that I disagreed with part of his opinion. I didn't go after him like he couldn't have said opinion.

Judging from his second response to me, he did intend that first response for me and not you. Hence, he's not only mentally unbalanced, he's a mikey to boot.

Key 11-16-2013 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Lord Larehip (Post 1385026)
Judging from his second response to me, he did intend that first response for me and not you. Hence, he's not only mentally unbalanced, he's a mikey to boot.

Well someone woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning.

The Batlord 11-16-2013 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1385029)
Well someone woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning.

I'd say it was Plankton who woke up wrong.

Key 11-16-2013 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1385031)
I'd say it was Plankton who woke up wrong.

Evidently, that is correct. How hard is it to wake up on the right side? It's literally on the RIGHT SIDE.

The Batlord 11-16-2013 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1385032)
Evidently, that is correct. How hard is it to wake up on the right side? It's literally on the RIGHT SIDE.

What if you like sleeping on the left side?

Lord Larehip 11-16-2013 11:19 AM

When you give someone s-hit for their response and it was the wrong person, you apologize. He not only didn't apologize he then issued me a veiled threat, and I'm being kind by calling it veiled because it wasn't. I don't know what the guy's deal is but it had better stop and quick.

Key 11-16-2013 11:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1385035)
What if you like sleeping on the left side?

What kind of person sleeps on the left side?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lord Larehip (Post 1385036)
When you give someone s-hit for their response and it was the wrong person, you apologize. He not only didn't apologize he then issued me a veiled threat, and I'm being kind by calling it veiled because it wasn't. I don't know what the guy's deal is but it had better stop and quick.

Perhaps it was a bit of miscommunication.

Dr_Rez 11-16-2013 11:34 AM

The scum of the earth that is who.





















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The Batlord 11-16-2013 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1385042)
What kind of person sleeps on the left side?

The wife?

Dr_Rez 11-16-2013 11:48 AM

haha I thought it was just me that loved the right side. I fight my girl over the right side, I cant sleep for **** on the left.


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