What do you personally do about these kind of people......

Xaidoz · 09-12-2013, 12:13 PM

Wassup everyone......Today Ive kind of realized that there are actually a lot of bad people out there in this cruel thing we call World. Some of you might see me as pessimistic, not looking at the good people and only focusing on the bad ones, but in reality theres no purely good people, since we all do something bad from time to time, even if we are not aware of it.

Now....I'd like to ask you guys, when you meet a bad person(or at least thats the impression you get regarding that person) and they have intentionally done something that made you sad, upset, angry, or irritated in some way. What do you do? How do you deal with it?

Personally......the main thing that I try to do is to simply forget that person or what they've done to me, and move on. Sometimes......I struggle to do that, and then I try some other methods. For example, Listening to music, going to sleep or anything else in general that makes me feel good. It definitely helped me forget the person and what they've done to me.

Well, what about you guys? I'd like to hear how you deal with that.

Plankton · 09-12-2013, 12:21 PM

Well, since this is a music oriented forum, I'll answer with a song:

Rush- Wish Them Well - YouTube

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 09-12-2013, 12:24 PM

usualy try to get them on skates in an argument which is pretty easy, just lots of quick hittin questions in a row

'hey man whyd u do that'

'feel good about it?'

'whys that?'

so you like bein a piece of shiit?'

etc etc til they break down and cry then i let out a silent fart in their direction and walk away with victory

scrapfriends · 09-13-2013, 05:05 AM

Obviously, person perception can be a very subjective process that can be impacted by a number of variables. Factors that can influence the impressions you form of other people include the characteristics of the person you are observing, the context of the situation and your own personal characteristics.

~~Cuthbert~~ · 09-13-2013, 06:04 AM

What do you mean by something bad? Not holding the door open? Punching you?

Someone burgled my house once and I found out who it was and doused his car in petrol and lit it. On the other hand, I'll usually ignore people unless if they've said something rude or whatever.

So yeah, usually ignore it unless it's serious.

**Janszoon** · 09-13-2013, 06:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Christian Benteke

Someone burgled my house once and I found out who it was and doused his car in petrol and lit it.

Jesus. Remind me never to piss you off.

~~Cuthbert~~ · 09-13-2013, 06:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Janszoon

Jesus. Remind me never to piss you off.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 09-13-2013, 10:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Christian Benteke

What do you mean by something bad? Not holding the door open? Punching you?

Someone burgled my house once and I found out who it was and doused his car in petrol and lit it. On the other hand, I'll usually ignore people unless if they've said something rude or whatever.

So yeah, usually ignore it unless it's serious.

Awesome.

Xaidoz · 09-13-2013, 11:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Christian Benteke

What do you mean by something bad? Not holding the door open? Punching you?

Someone burgled my house once and I found out who it was and doused his car in petrol and lit it. On the other hand, I'll usually ignore people unless if they've said something rude or whatever.

So yeah, usually ignore it unless it's serious.

I was speaking generally, not about any specific bad thing in particular. Just anything that is considered bad in general, like the things you said.

Also thats very brave of you to do that to his car, I wouldnt dare to do anything even if I knew who the person was or if I knew where his car is. I guess Im somewhat a coward, but thats probably a good thing.

Mr. Charlie · 10-16-2013, 04:20 PM

I try and let the bad stuff slide. Life is for living and laughing and diving into the ineffability of it all. I can't do that if I'm stewing over something somebody said or did.

View Poll Results: Someone has done something bad to you, and you are now upset, sad or angry. You......
Find something relaxing or entertaining to do to help me forget it.	2	28.57%
Nothing. I dont care, and even when I am sad or angry I quickly calm down after a short time.	0	0%
I do something bad to that person myself, and that makes me feel much better.	1	14.29%
I have never been in a situation like you say, so I cant really tell you.	0	0%
I ask a friend or someone close to me to help me figure out what to do about it.	0	0%
I talk to that person and ask why did he or she do this bad thing and if they can stop.	0	0%
I am left confused because I had no idea why did they do that to me.	4	57.14%
Voters: 7. You may not vote on this poll

09-12-2013, 12:13 PM	#1 (permalink)
Xaidoz Groupie Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: Jerusalem, Israel. Posts: 18	What do you personally do about these kind of people...... Wassup everyone......Today Ive kind of realized that there are actually a lot of bad people out there in this cruel thing we call World. Some of you might see me as pessimistic, not looking at the good people and only focusing on the bad ones, but in reality theres no purely good people, since we all do something bad from time to time, even if we are not aware of it. Now....I'd like to ask you guys, when you meet a bad person(or at least thats the impression you get regarding that person) and they have intentionally done something that made you sad, upset, angry, or irritated in some way. What do you do? How do you deal with it? Personally......the main thing that I try to do is to simply forget that person or what they've done to me, and move on. Sometimes......I struggle to do that, and then I try some other methods. For example, Listening to music, going to sleep or anything else in general that makes me feel good. It definitely helped me forget the person and what they've done to me. Well, what about you guys? I'd like to hear how you deal with that.

09-12-2013, 12:21 PM	#2 (permalink)
Plankton Just Keep Swimming... Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: See signature... Posts: 7,765	Well, since this is a music oriented forum, I'll answer with a song: Rush- Wish Them Well - YouTube __________________ See location...

09-13-2013, 05:05 AM	#4 (permalink)
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09-12-2013, 12:24 PM	#3 (permalink)
~~butthead aka 216~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: freely swimmin thru the waters of glory much like a majestic bald eagle soars thru the skies Posts: 1,463	usualy try to get them on skates in an argument which is pretty easy, just lots of quick hittin questions in a row 'hey man whyd u do that' 'feel good about it?' 'whys that?' so you like bein a piece of shiit?' etc etc til they break down and cry then i let out a silent fart in their direction and walk away with victory

09-13-2013, 06:04 AM	#5 (permalink)
~~Cuthbert~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: The Black Country Posts: 8,827	What do you mean by something bad? Not holding the door open? Punching you? Someone burgled my house once and I found out who it was and doused his car in petrol and lit it. On the other hand, I'll usually ignore people unless if they've said something rude or whatever. So yeah, usually ignore it unless it's serious.

10-16-2013, 04:20 PM	#10 (permalink)
Mr. Charlie Shoo Thoughts Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: These Mountains Posts: 2,308	I try and let the bad stuff slide. Life is for living and laughing and diving into the ineffability of it all. I can't do that if I'm stewing over something somebody said or did.