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View Poll Results: Someone has done something bad to you, and you are now upset, sad or angry. You......
Find something relaxing or entertaining to do to help me forget it. 2 28.57%
Nothing. I dont care, and even when I am sad or angry I quickly calm down after a short time. 0 0%
I do something bad to that person myself, and that makes me feel much better. 1 14.29%
I have never been in a situation like you say, so I cant really tell you. 0 0%
I ask a friend or someone close to me to help me figure out what to do about it. 0 0%
I talk to that person and ask why did he or she do this bad thing and if they can stop. 0 0%
I am left confused because I had no idea why did they do that to me. 4 57.14%
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Old 10-17-2013, 02:45 PM   #11 (permalink)
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there are some people I consider to be very close to me who nearly incessantly talk shit about me (not naming any names but I've learned that [future] in-laws can definitely be like that) and it does hurt my feelings but I kindly distance myself from those people until it doesn't hurt as much. A lot of the time I say I don't care, or I just try harder to be more agreeable to their standards (without bending my personality to appeal to them) but it's so frustrating to treat people with unconditional kindness, and then have them stab you in the back.
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