rare moment of seriousness

actually wasnt cheating but first time i learned another dude was involved


-broke up for a few months
-things unresolved
-see each other monthly mainly for sex
-have party at my crib on new years eve
-drink 6 shots of jager
-drink hurricane
-her best friend tells me shes with someone else
-not good idea when i've drank so much
-get mad at everyone
-ppl leave for awhile
-take shots of jager
-bong mikes harder lemonade someone left with my best friend
-ppl come back
-still angry
-leave her voicemail
-throw up jager
-drink yuenglings
-yell at her friend who told me til she cries
-go to bedroom with bunch of ppl
-play rap music
-feel like nothin left in life
-give random kid a half ounce
-force him to pack as many bowls as possible
-have bong, gasmask, bubbler in rotation
-drink more beers
-yell at some ppl
-pee pants
-pass out


best new yrs ever

Usually I wait till I've passed out before I piss myself, but pay me no mind.

If you've been with your partner for some long while and really really love him/her but deep inside you really really feel like having it off with someone else (maybe just a one-off); you just can't get this new kind of randiness out of your body... first of all: is it a mortal sin? second: if you fell back on a professional sex worker to consummate the aforementioned yearning -or urge- (a one-off perhaps).. would it be cheating?

For you, yes

for anyone in a exclusiv relationship thats cheatin


depends tho what kinda sex worker, camwhore or hooker??

If you hide it from your partner or have to ask the question 'is this cheating?', it's probably cheating tbh.

Someone must have said once: "it's not allowed to have sex with someone else if you're married or have a partner". It was such a brilliant idea - a real stroke of genius, wasn't it? What would you do if your partner proposed having a kind of open-minded relationship, a kind of Jean Paul Sartre-Simone de Beauvoir relationship? Wouldn't anyone here grab the opportunity?

Right - He could not hide it from his partner and involve his partner. I think they call it swinging.

You have to have a strong core to your relationship before you go into an open relationship or else it will just end up being a big mess with trust issues.

Totally. I'm incapable of monogamy anyway