NEVER buy a woman a drink!
 

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Murica

Ridiculous.

And lol at buying women drinks.

I don't understand why people even do this.

Though I'm not saying I wouldn't be glad to see someone show up at my doorstep with a ton of liquor.

As long as they left immediately.

:beer:

in france someone bought me an entire bottle of chablis. i scraped my knee the same night.
in america, I'd be a millionaire after this lawsuit!

That's because you don't understand the bar/club scene and the etiquette behind some of it.


ROFL I just clicked on the link and OF COURSE it's in TEXAS!

True! I'm too meek for all that jazz.

lol wtf?

what is this lady thinking? She has no one to blame for the decision she made herself and honestly to be this crazy she must be an alcoholic in the first place

Well maybe she does understand bar/club/pub/beer-garden/after-hours/keg-party/beer-pong etiquette, how do we know? I mean it just sounds kinda presumptuous telling her she doesn't.

If she did know she would just correct me and tell me I'm wrong but I already know that she isn't that type and doesn't understand the customs. Why are you making this a big deal?

It's not a big deal. It's just telling a person what they don't know isn't something I am use to seeing as etiquette... not that it's a big deal.

poor guy, feelin bad for him.

sad this country has such a problem with accountability. someone always has to share the blame. wonder if he would have been arrested if he was a woman. something tells me no.

That's fine if you feel I'm rude and don't have etiquette but general etiquette does not equal the same as bar/club etiquette. So you can have a seat please.

Uh what's up with dudes buying girls drinks? I always return the favour because I'm not rude. It baffles me how some things go in other countries.

In america girls expect to be bought drinks. The worst part is that dudes do it. I always see these really desperate looking horny dudes buying the bartender drinks, that is ****ing crazy. Then tipping her for the drink she gave herself on their bill.

Yeah, when I was single, women who expected to be paid for all the time without ever reciprocating used to annoy the crap out if me. Fortunately there were plenty of worthwhile women out there who weren't like that.

A lot of women here have a sense of entitlement, that men should be throwing money and gifts in their direction, like their love has to be bought. Thankfully I'm not one of them.

I hear you, I wouldn't say girls here expect it as a rule of thumb but I've seen girls go up to lads on nights out, get the drink then fuck off. That's why I wouldn't do it, it's a shit tactic, there's no guarantee of her spending any time with you, she could just neck it and leave. I do buy drinks for people but not some nobody I've never spoke to before as a way to get talking to them.

One of my close mates has said before if she's low on money she'll just hang around desperate looking lads and get them to buy a drink, you could have a night out doing that.

But this is the man's fault for doing it. If someone came up to me and asked me if they could buy me a drink the answer would be a resounding yes.

I don't blame single women for keeping up with this activity. If I was a female, I would definitely use that to my advantage to go out without any money and always have a good time from stupid men buying me drinks.

Speaking of stupid men, I have a horrible story from the beginning of the summer. I was getting back into the club scene because I've been out of it for awhile. This girl asked this guy to buy her a drink and he laughed in her face and moved on. I felt bad for her so I offered to buy her a drink. I came back with the drink and she dipped off. I was expecting to talk to her but I know she's not obligated to stay and talk with me. Later on in the night. She has the nerve to come back to me and ask for a drink again but this time she also wants one for her friend. My stupid ass decided to buy them the two drinks but before I left. I told her that I wouldn't buy them if you didn't spend some time with me and at least dance with me for a little bit. She agreed. I went off and got the two drinks and got my money's worth this time around. She danced with me for about 20 mins before she pissed off.

chameleon thats rprostitution without sex lol


i explained in semi detail why women in general feel entitled mainly in their college and early-mid 20s. buying women drinks is a big part of that. ive seen women whine on the internet before about men expecting something from them after buying them a drink. lol they are so far gone down entitlement road that they are brainwashed and blinded. these ppl never have healthy relationship without change.


ive rarely bought drinks for other at the bar. its not in my nature to blow money like that. i will say it does work tho my one friend in particular has boinked girls he just randomly bought drinks. i dont do a random approach i wait til ive talked to them a little bit or danced with them then buy some drinks and try to get wild

NEVER buy a woman a drink!
 

I do not think that women feel they are inherently entitled to anything like men seem to think. I think it's more a matter of men believing that they are and so they bend over backwards for a woman because they think it's the only way to impress her and possibly score.

Theres the other side of the coin also. Some guys are just inherently nice and like to cater to the women they date. I've always been that way, I buy them drinks because i'm courteous not because I want to get in their panties. I think the dating public has really changed over the years. Guys seem to be the ones expecting stuff nowadays and I find it kind of repulsive in general.

It goes both ways though. Guys are expecting things based off of what women expect. Just like the whole 3 date rule.

If you think about it all dating is pretty much prostitution it's just that you have to pay for around 3 dates or so or depending on the girl it might be longer/shorter amount of time but you don't get to see the goods before paying like with prostitution unless she dresses provocatively.

It doesn't go both ways. I go out on a date to get to know somebody. I expect nothing but a thank you at the end of the night. I have no idea what the 3 date rule is. Is that where your inner caveman comes out and you drag the girl back to your room by her hair? :ar_15s:

Dating culture in America is weird.

Fred, I think what's being discussed here is going out on your own & buying a girl a drink as an icebreaker in the hopes of getting some at the end of the night out, rather that going out *with* a girl on a date.


I not only never buy a girl a drink, I don't even buy *myself* a drink. And I absolutely never go out, except once in a while with my lady friend for dinner and/or a movie and/or a hockey game and/or so on...

I guess I look at it as one and the same. If you're out in public and buy a girl a drink its usually because you're already talking to them in some fashion. I wouldn't randomly walk up to a girl in a bar with a drink in hand for her.

Hockey? I thought you were in seattle are you watching the Thunderbirds?

yea i think ppl were mainly talkin about a bar settin and buyin a drink as an ice breaker.


my bro was at a club like 3 weeks ago and went to buy a girl a drink and she was like no thanks i have a boyfriend. that right there is respectful

I think it would be a horrible choice in that instant then. Half the girls I know would think some random guy spiked a drink.

You don't hand the girl the drink, you buy it for them right then and there.

How are you supposed to spike it then? :bonkhead:

Smart girls wouldn't take a drink from a guy but it happens all the time.

It does go both ways. Your specific experience isn't a catch all rule. Just like what I'm talking about isn't how everyone conducts themselves but a large majority do. You only expect a thank you at the end of the night because you sir are a gentleman. There are plenty of douchebags that want at the very least a kiss at the end of the night for paying for the date. By date 3 they are expecting their date to give it up for them paying for 3 dates. Women expect guys to pay for their dates especially if they were the ones asking for the dates in the first place. I'm sure I can pull up studies showing how many women want their dates to pay for the date they go on. Yes this has changed somewhat with the economic climate but there are still princesses out there that will not go out with a guy unless he's paying for the date.

Buying women drinks? :laughing:

F*ck that, it's not the 1950s anymore.
Either get your round in or f*ck off, and that applies to both sexes.

lol @ the news story, that is ridiculous.

Personally when I was single I hated it when guys offered to buy me a drink and I promptly turned them down for the reason that I would feel as though I "owed" them something for the drink and also because it feels like it's a way of forcing you to give them your attention in a way. If you like someone and want to get to know them or "make a move" so to speak, why not talk to them or something instead of "buying" their attention? This goes for either sex.

It's not so much buying their attention, it's more about you being in a bar/club and offering to get them a drink that would help them relax a bit so they aren't so nervous/shy about talking to you in the first place. I know that only applies to shy people in general but I think that's where the custom comes from. When people have some liquid courage they are more open and likely to be talkative.

I suppose, but women can make the choice themselves of whether or not they want to open up to get to know someone. You don't need to "buy" them the chance to open up and be talkative with you, if somebody wants some liquid courage they can buy it themselves/make that decision for themselves. This is how I just personally feel when people offer to buy me a drink.

If the shoe was on the other foot. I would be all like woohoo free drink and I have the choice to do whatever I want with it. So if I don't feel like talking to the person that was silly enough to buy me a drink without first talking to me to see if I'm even interested in the slightest then I would thank them and walk away.

If someone offers to buy me a drink I'll chat to them but tbh the only people who have bought me a drink are other men at football matches. Though I remember I was seeing this girl once and she turned up with a crate of Carlsberg for me :D.

I had a phase where that was my goal for the night to see how many women I can get to buy me drinks. My record was 4 in one night but it wasn't easy.